help? keeping my boyfriend hard

[joesgirl15]

My boyfriend and I have been together for a while now. He's 20 and I'm 18. A couple weeks ago I took his virginity and he's always had trouble getting and keeping an erection. He goes numb during sex a lot and only usually feels anything when he ejaculates. Sometimes the only way for him to get hard is me stimulating him orally or for him to watch porn. At first I thought maybe he wasn't attracted to me but he assured me that that isn't the case and its always been this way for him even while masturbating. I've told him that I don't love him any less but he still beats himself up when I'm horny and he can't preform. Should I push him to see a doctor?

[joesgirl15]

But he already complains about how tight I am. It hurts him

[Dalubaba]

Google kegel exercise. Learn it and practice it every day. while doing intercourse you can do kegel exercise.He can also kegel you. This will help you to squeeze his penis effectively and if he does kegel to you, movement of his penis will be vertical, giving you different types of sensation. Kegel is designed by DR. kegel and he used to advice it to female to strengthen pelvic floor.

[joesgirl15]

When he gets an erection he satisifys me 100% and when he can't keep it he still gets me off several times. I just want to make him feel as good as he makes me feel.

[Dalubaba]

He won't be able to perform unless he quits porno and masturbation.  If he is not serious enough, he will not be able to perform.Combination of porno and masturbation is incompatible. He has to quit porno. He does not try seriously, you quit him.AS you have not started to have a satisfactory sex, he would not understand the gravity of the problem and stick to the habit of watching porno and doing masturbation in tandem.