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help please!!!!! asap. perforation?
i am a young male and i just tried a butt plug for the first time. i kept hearing about how good it feels for the prostate so i figured i'd try one out. this plug was medium sized, 5.75" circumference. only 3" long. ( i bought it because it was half off and short)
it hurt to get in but i kept pushing it in further anyways...the pain was bad around the largest part but it went away once it was in. it just felt uncomfortable from then. slight pain lingering. this took around an hour from preparation by lubing the plug to now when i'm typing this out...
i turned the vibrating function on (very strong) and masturbated. when i was done i realized i do not like this sensation at all and tried to pull out the plug. i figured pulling it out forcefully would be bad so i went to bathroom and 'pooped' it out instead. i wiped it clean and there was no fecal matter or blood on the plug itself.
but now my ******* feels swollen, hurts a bit, feels like i have to keep clenching. i put a finger up there to see if everything was okay and everything felt normal other than some pain and sensitivity. but i saw a tiny amount of blood in either lube or mucus when i pulled my finger out? i am worried. it was a very very thin and small strip.
i am a huge hypochondriac so i'm guessing i'm okay but the swollen feeling + discomfort + slight burn i'm feeling in my butt right now, is it normal for first plug use? it also feels like something is in there it might be lube i'm too scared to check if it's blood. sorry for the long rant i'm scared bc i can't tell my parents and go to the doctor if something is wrong.
i just want to know that i didn't damage my colon but perforation or disconnecting my rectum or some other stuff i read on the internet. please answer asap!!!
it hurt to get in but i kept pushing it in further anyways...the pain was bad around the largest part but it went away once it was in. it just felt uncomfortable from then. slight pain lingering. this took around an hour from preparation by lubing the plug to now when i'm typing this out...
i turned the vibrating function on (very strong) and masturbated. when i was done i realized i do not like this sensation at all and tried to pull out the plug. i figured pulling it out forcefully would be bad so i went to bathroom and 'pooped' it out instead. i wiped it clean and there was no fecal matter or blood on the plug itself.
but now my ******* feels swollen, hurts a bit, feels like i have to keep clenching. i put a finger up there to see if everything was okay and everything felt normal other than some pain and sensitivity. but i saw a tiny amount of blood in either lube or mucus when i pulled my finger out? i am worried. it was a very very thin and small strip.
i am a huge hypochondriac so i'm guessing i'm okay but the swollen feeling + discomfort + slight burn i'm feeling in my butt right now, is it normal for first plug use? it also feels like something is in there it might be lube i'm too scared to check if it's blood. sorry for the long rant i'm scared bc i can't tell my parents and go to the doctor if something is wrong.
i just want to know that i didn't damage my colon but perforation or disconnecting my rectum or some other stuff i read on the internet. please answer asap!!!
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I'm pretty sure the symptoms you're having are not that unusual.
You might want to do what the above poster recommended and use a stool softener for a few days.
You might want to do what the above poster recommended and use a stool softener for a few days.
thank you! there is no more bleeding as far as i can tell but my *** is still sore, never doing that again!
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You may take metamucil (sp?) to soften your fecal matter. I hope this helps you.