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homosexuality

sir  i am a man of age  18. now actually about from 4 to five months i am suffering from homosexual feelings about 6 months back a gay was identified in our area after that incident only i had come across about the existence of gay persons . after that incident  i saw some gay sex related pictures and movies . after that i became careful about my sexuality i want to be  a normal man about one month i stayed away from those gay movies now rarely i will get homosexual feelings but i am not getting heterosexual feelings.
can u suggest me how can i be a normal man i want to be an hetero sexual guy. i really don't know  am i a homosexual or not  please can u help me
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   Hello,

   You should not feel guilty or ashamed of your sexual feelings. It could mean that you are Gay or it could be that you are just 'curious" at this time in your life about the opposite sex......sometimes called Bi- Curious!

   This is very popular these days and nothing to worry you. With that being said, as rich99 stated, You have to be True to Yourself!  No worries though. you will know what sex you are attracted to and what Feels Right"  

   Another thought, perhaps you could be Bi- Sexual....and enjoy sexual relations with both. Do you still have some sort of feeling for females also?  Again, be true to yourself and do not be ashamed of who you are.

Take Care,
~Tonya
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1285326 tn?1433024464
b wit a girl have sex and foreplay and c if u lik it.
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You or anyone for that matter will know whether they are gay or straight.     The use of the word 'normal' to mean not being gay is a thing of the past when homosexaulity was considered a sickness or abnormal.     Others will argue this point but when all is said and done,   a person's sexual orientation is set at birth.     Society's pressure in the past to be 'normal' creates severe emotional problems in many gay individuals when they try to suppress their true feelings.     Anyway,  if you are attracted to males and lack the attraction to females then you are gay and have nothing to be ashamed of.   But only YOU know your true feelings regardless of what you post in these message boards.     A person must be true to themselves.
"""I want to be an hetero sexual guy""""  you post.     If you are attracted to the same sex then this is not a possibility.   Only you know your true feelings.
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