homosexuality

[winsedna]

sir  i am a man of age  18. now actually about from 4 to five months i am suffering from homosexual feelings about 6 months back a gay was identified in our area after that incident only i had come across about the existence of gay persons . after that incident  i saw some gay sex related pictures and movies . after that i became careful about my sexuality i want to be  a normal man about one month i stayed away from those gay movies now rarely i will get homosexual feelings but i will be attracted towards girls i see  picture of naked girl my penis does not become stiff i will get sexual feeling but mastribution will not occur is i dont know whether it is an abnormality or not . can you answer me
can u suggest me how can i be a normal man i want to be an hetero sexual guy. i really don't know  am i a homosexual or not  please can u help me

[syedali]

hmm rite .! sorry for the mistakes...  m not that much experienced becuz m just 18..!

[Rich99]

With all due respect,  you may mean well but you're missing the point here.   Poster says....     "" I am sure that u will get arouse ! good luck"""   Well gee you may get aroused because you're straight but someone who is gay will not and it has nothing to do with "luck"lol.     It has to do with sexual orientation that is almost always determined at birth just like the color of your eyes or hair, etc.     The thread author will know whether he is attracted to the opposite gender or the same gender.     My gut feeling is he has known this for some time now.

[syedali]

Hi, I think u shud watch straight porn involving man and woman... try to masturbate while watching porn... I am sure that u will get arouse ! good luck :)... my case is totally opposite ... I try not to watch porn because when i watch even a naked picture or video of a girl i can't stop myself masturbating !!

[gymdandee]

Rich99 is correct and  jefelex doesn't know what he is talking about!

[Rich99]

geeeez that kind of advice is not needed,  it's actually could cause emotional harm to both of them.   This kid has posted multiple threads same title so I wasn't gonna reply here but heck that kind of advice is bad.    
I'll say what I said on his other posted thread that your sexual orientation is determined by the time you're born.    Its the same whether you will have blonde hair or black hair,  green eyes or blue eyes.    Only you know whether you are truely attracted to the same sex or opposite sex.      Modern examples would be Lance Bass,  Ricky Martin or actor Neil Patrick Harris.    Do you not think they could have had their share of female relationships growing up surrounded by many female fans?    They still could have opposite gender relationships with all the admiring females out there.    They are fairly good looking guys.    But the fact is they were gay males performing in a society where the majority of the population is heterosexual.     They all decided to reveal this issue in order to not live a lie of being straight males and leave a trail of broke emotional females.

Having said this,   I am not implying that the poster is a straight or gay male.    I am saying to him that he should go with his true feelings and he will find out which gender he is attracted to.    But to say to someone go ahead and find a female and it will all work out for you is poor advice.    

[jefelex]

first of all - don't worry about it!  Find yourself a good woman and marry her, then you'll find out that you are probably not homosexual. I'm sure you'll become aroused with her at the right time!