my name is apop. i m 15 year old. i started masterbating when i was 14 years old. can you tell me that it is healthy or not.
and very important I REALLY WANT TO STOP MASTERBATING!!!
please help please give me some ways to stop masterbating!!!
PLEASE PLEASE TAKE IT SEARIOUS!!! AND ITS REALLY URGENT
Why is it so important to you to stop masturbating? That is really the essential question in your case, and even if you don't answer me, you need to answer that for yourself. Only if you are aware of this will you be able to have any control.
As to masturbating being unhealthy, it is not. It just is. I have two sons and they were masturbating when they were much younger than you.
You can control where you do it, obviously. But to stop doing it altogether will be a little difficult. In my experience, the harder I try to stop something, the worse it gets. So, you first have to accept yourself and what you are doing before you can stop it, I think. When something is unacceptable to a person, it's much harder to stop. And maybe you don't really have to?
hey pop iactually agree with "oneguyhere" it does have some side effects specialy if its for a long time later in the future it can be hard for uto please ur wife.. i hope i'l be writing to u would help ive actually written it for a couple of forms who also wanna stop masturbating that bad like u..
. i hope i could help..
listen here r some things try to do it,it may help
first of allif u r felling bad about it and u wanna stop it thats a good thing coz it with help u to stop it i know u must be saying right now that no it didnt help but it did.. even if its just 2%
try not to spend so much time alone or not to sleep alone in the room have a bro or a friend with u and if it cant be done then try to spend more time with family and friends till u r really sleepy so that when u go to sleep u sleep straight away..
i know guys get turned on easily so if theres any seducing scenes or any hot clips try avoid this at the moment.. and start a hobby or something like footballor guitar or piano ive got piano example and try to put all ur focus and thinking on it.. if u got turned on the first thing u must think about is to get away fromthe place u got that thinking and go out or do somethng anyhting even if its to go and drinkwater or eat to distract u and to to a full roomwith people coz with people around u , u wont be able to masturbate..and try to aviod the places u masturbate in like in a corner or a specific room.. i know that as soon as u feel like u wanna masturbate u wont go to a full room of ppl or call a friend coz u dont want to u want the exact opposite but just try.. ok u can start by something by the time u get my message check wat date it is on ur calender and from that date to another week or ten days u cant be masturbating nnot even once coz if u had decided and marked on ur calender that for one week u wont masturbate and u came on the 6th day and did it then it dosent count that u didnt do it for 6 days so u will have to start agian a whole new week or ten days but the thing is that ... try not to put that as an option that if u broke a week to be another.. if u r trying to stop there shouldnt be many tries and thinking of reducing it then stop it wont help..
coz stoping it totally then going back to it is even worse that after ur body is used to woek normally and provide the normal hormones u will be spoil everyhting specially that if will be feeling togood at the first time.. any way lets not think about that now just plz consider about wat if said and the calender thing
btw.. dont think about it much ur masturbating issue coz just thinking about it and that u r worried and not having a good selfesteem wont help trust me DONT think about it much u can be passing 4 days very easily without even feeling like u want to masturbate if u didnt think about it and got ur self busy..
so.. take care and keep in touch if theres anyhting.. send me ur email and we willbe in touch.... ive wrote wat i know to u and to a friend of mine and ireally hope i can help if anyone wants to know more i can be giving my email or u can add me as a friend
btw im not a professional or something just a friend who wanna help..
I force myself to stop masturbation but it does not work, even i try to stop it for some day my body will ejaculate by itself during sleeping time and i wake up *** wet by sperm, am tired of this. I ask doctors for many but they said there is no medicine or drug for this.
Anybody should please and tell me what to do, or if there is any medicine or any food to be eating to stop this evil attitude or to stop of feeling sexing all the time, write me please (aj_one***@****) this very serious, thank.
hey its cause ur body is used to ejaculate after masturbating so thats y u ge tthese wet dreams.. try to get urself busy and read wat ive wrote above from a few weeks
just try to stop masturbating if u stoped it for few days and got back to it again its even worse coz u will enjoy it alot more like how u felt when u first started to mastubate..
anyway just tryt o stop it u will continue having wet dreams its ok thats normal but t a point u wont and ur body will be relaxed and not nervous just try not to think of it alot and give ur self some time
I use to be addicted to masterbating but once i entered high school there are so many hot girls so what i did was cut my hair, started doin my hair cool, wearing cool clothes and so then i just kinda became a player nd stuff,, also i got a phone and so i had girls numbers nd all i would do is text with girls, hangout with my friends and i also play soccer so then basically i never was at home so what im saying is get a phone and just talk to girls and stuff do your hair and play a sport..... oh yea one more thing that i did to take the addiction away was workout everyday cause i had weight trainnin and i became addicted to working out.... and just watch do all this stuff... so try to become a bodybuilder get a phone and just hangout with friends and working out will take the time that your alone away and just workout... and if you have a facebook or myspace get active dude. but i bet every guy has been addicted to jacking off hahahaa i still do it and im 15 try to do like once or twice a month lol hahaha nd delete the websites you get on to masturbate hahaha
If you want to stop first stop the thing thats making you wank for example your phone or laptop or even a magazine dont bring them into a empty room for eg the bathroom. Another way is fasting (not eating) till 6.00 making your mind focus on eating not about sexual desires, just try to focus your mind on somthing like playing games, by then later youll forget about masterbating
I have the sme prob but I found out how to stop. Just try to get some gum nerds taffy something like that and keep eating it after 2 weeks or so I'll want to do it. Don't decline it do it and keep doing that and then I'll get board. Or cut it off
Hello i am 14 years old and I have been masterbating since I was 12 and I can't stop doing it. I do it about twice a day. Is it normal to masterbat and is there any way to stop. I really need to stop doing it.
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