It may not be all your mind either. It could be part enjoyment/pleasure. When your boyfriend gives you oral sex, how does your clit feel? Are you truly enjoying the feeling?
Yea I think it has a lot to do with my mind
I think the issue is your boyfriend. Why does he assume every time he gives you oral sex, you're suppose to reach an orgasm?
If thats the case, the majority women would be mad when giving oral sex to a man because the average men doesn't reach an orgasm from receiving oral sex.
i say fake it, or think about something real freak and make your own self *** because it's a mental thing. maybe there is a disconnect between you all. maybe yall should try doing the 69 and see how he likes that. its always good to try something new