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hurt having sex the first time(uncircumcised)
this is my first time having sex but it hurts and im 21 and uncircumcised. now i know the skin suppose to go behind the head... but i never seen mines do that but it was trying to doing sex, but i didn't finish because we got disturbed so the skin never made it behind the head and im scared to try to pull it back because it hurt. what to do?
My boyfriend is uncircumcised, and he said that our first time was painful for him because the skin hadn't ever been pulled back that far. Just be prepared and eventually it will get better. :)
If the skin is really tight, you can loosen it by gently stretching the skin outward each day. The opening can be expanded, so the foreskin will move over the penis during sex. This will take a while - perhaps a few weeks, perhaps months - so in the meantime, use lube during sex.
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