i cant figure it out

[lizbeff]

me and my husband have been married for almost 2 months and we have a really great sex life. we have sex close to every night or everyother night. every now and then i get really irritated during penetration it starts to burn but just the first couple minutes, after that its ok until we are done and then it starts burning again. it gets red and swells sometimes. ive been to the doctor five different times about this and they always say its caused by condoms, but we dont use them, or its my feminine wash, but i changed it. it doesnt happen all the time sometimes we can go for a couple months without it. i have no idea what it is or how to fix it.

[lizbeff]

thank you

[Venom82]

Just check every possible option. I hope you find as fast as possible what it is, before becomes serious. Best of luck.

[lizbeff]

thank you for your advise and im not upset i asked for it lol. i dont think it is the fact that it takes a while to get use to eachother because we have been having sex for over 10 months. haha and yes he is clean he washes himself  after everytime we have sex as do i. at first i thought it was a yeast infection so i went to the doctor for that and she said no. then i thought it was an std so i went to about 3 different doctors and have been tested for about everything u could possibly imagine and everything came back negative. i honestly dont think hes using a condom with someone else because he is a drill instructor in the usmc  and he works 16 hours a day he doesnt have time to have an affair. thank you for trying lol but like i said its wierd i cant figure it out and none of the doctors ive to have been able to either

[Venom82]

Hi! It can be just simple adaptation between your skin types, I now I took a bit for me and my wife. Or, I don't want to be rude but, he must wash his penis at all times, to be scrupulously clean! If that is done already then it might be a form of herpes you should check it by some specialist that understands that none of you it's using condoms.
There is another option but please don't take it the wrong way from my part, I'm just trying to help you with ideas so you can solve the problem. I don't know you or your husband nor your history together, butt if some times you have it and some times not maybe he is using a condom before you sometimes. I ask for apology and hope you are not upset! My advice is to analyze all the possible situations.