kid wanted to have sex

I'am only 15 , but i wanted to have sex already. is it just ok? if i use condom?

[aglander64]

If you have to ask if its ok then your not ready. Wait awhile :)

[vmvnpv]

Ditto aglander and the other dead give away that you're not ready is you still refer to yourself as a kid.  (which you are).  Wait until the right one comes along.  Believe me.  It's worth the wait!

[kerianna26]

At 15 you should be thinking about more important things than sex, and if you have to second guess yourself about sex, then you're not ready for it.  I would say wait until you know you are ready and you have the RIGHT person to have sex with because these days there are plenty of guys out there that are only wanting sex from a female and that's not right so I would just wait if I were you until you have the right person and you know they want to be with you and not just have sex with you.  You're still young, enjoy it while you can...don't ruin it by giving something so precious away to just anyone.  Good luck and I hope you do the right thing :)

[aglander64]

I agree with Kerianna

[heatherlynn22]

the others are right. you still refer to yourself as a kid and need to know if condoms are safe you're not ready. go play football, soccer, baseball or swim. get your mind off of sex. wait a few years.

[vmvnpv]

Ditto Kerianna 100%.  In today's world sex isn't worth the risk of getting pg or an STD.  It's best to wait for the one who will love you whether you have sex with them or not.  And it will mean so much more.  Take it from someone who waited until she was 21.  I am now married to the one and only man I ever had sex with and I don't regret it at all!  I couldn't tell you how many guys in HS dumped me because I wouldn't have sex with them but it was the BEST decision I ever made.  It hurt then but in the big scheme of things it wasn't that serious.  I wanted someone to love me, not use me which most HS guys do.  I know too many people who had sex at a young age and they wish they had waited.  It's too much of an emotional rollercoaster and the feelings that come with it can be too hard to handle at times.  It really is worth the wait!  Good luck!

[vmvnpv]

I'm sorry.  My advice still stands even though you're a male.  It's still not worth the risk of getting an STD or getting someone pg.

[kerianna26]

I agree with what everyone is saying up here, and sorry I thought you were female...but like vmvnpv said it's not worth getting an std over and NO condoms don't prevent you from getting an STD...but like I said before...you are only 15 you should be out doing something more important than having sex....and if you're getting the peer pressure from other teens about having sex..then they're not you're friends because friends would never peer pressure you to do anything.  I think you should still wait until you have that right person to have sex with.  Good luck with whatever decision you make but I still stand strong about my advice..and also I lost my virginity at 18...and I'm now 26 and married...I wish I had lost my virginity to my husband, but unfortunately I was young and dumb and wanted to see what it was like since everyone else was talking about it.  I will just say this, it wasn't what it was all made out to be (well atleast for me it wasnt), I cried.  So I will tell you, wait until you have the right person because it's something that's so precious that you will NEVER get back or be able to take back.  Don't do something you will regret in the long run.  I hope what we're all trying to say here, helps you.

[nart]

christ child i didnt even think of sex tell i was 22 dont do it.

[vmvnpv]

Also, consider the girls feelings.  Many girls read a lot into sex.  They are emotionally invested and think that the guy they are having sex with will be with them forever.  At your age it doesn't happen.  Then the girl is left brokenhearted.  Don't lead them on just to have sex with them.  And I don't care that they say "I agree to be a friend with benefits" or "I'm just in it for the sex."  Chances are they're not and they are doing 1 of 2 things.  Either kidding themselves or trying to get you to stay with them if they do the one thing you want them to do, have sex.  You're much too young for that kind of drama.  And that's what sex does.....it brings drama.