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libido and arousal diminished

I am 48, in menopause, over the past 6 months I  have completely lost my sexual desire and ability to orgasm.
I am very attracted to men and have always enjoyed sex. Although both decreased over time, I am not sure what happened as now there is nothing. I am lost trying to figure this out.

I am physically healthy, exercise, eat well, take vitamins, etc. I love my work, have great friends, family, etc. I have tried over the counter enhancers, herbs, etc. Have been to the GYN - no help offered.  I have done extensive searches on the Internet to no avail.

Desperately need your help.

Thank you.
Cleo
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hers a sure fire way for you to get turned on and have a orgasm,don't laugh at me now.ask your man in a very sensual way to suck on your toes,he needs to roll his tongue over under and around each one very gently and get them nice and wet.then suck on each toe and finnally put your foot in his mouth and suck on it .the same thing with the other foot,women have quite a few sensitive spots through out their feet.some people think its disgusting but i love it .by the time i get to the second foot she's dripping like a water faucet.i hope it helps,it never failed me
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I think this is fairly common when going through menopause. Your hormones are changing.
Maybe you can talk to your Dr about hormone replacement therapy. If your healthy and have no history of heat disease or blot clots you should be fine. If I had my choice I would go with the bio identical hormones. Take care. Remar
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