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If you start having difficulties during sex with your wife (difficulty maintaining erection or reaching climax) then it might help to cut down on the masturbation, but if you are not having any problems in those areas then you're fine.
Only you can make the judgement about keeping this secret from your wife.
Good for you, for respecting the importance and sanctity of your marriage, and dealing with your urges on your own rather than looking elsewhere!