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masterbation

by nortmann, Sep 28, 2009 05:24AM
I have been masterbating (masturbating) for most of my life (I am now 62) and really enjoy it. I am married but find I need to satisfy myself as my wife does not want to have sex as much as I do. Our sex life is good but I find I need to do it more often, sometimes every second day. The problem is that I feel teribly guilty about it as my wife does not know I masterbate.
I will never go with another woman as that goes against all that I believe in the sanctity of marriage.
Should I stop this habit or should I just carry on and keep it my secret?
Member Comments (3)

by thinlineman, Sep 28, 2009 09:29AM
If you enjoy it keep it up. If the wife cant keep up, thats fine to get relief.

by sammy73, Sep 28, 2009 11:03AM
To: nortmann
This is quite normal, and a perfectly reasonable response to having a different level of sex drive to your wife.

If you start having difficulties during sex with your wife (difficulty maintaining erection or reaching climax) then it might help to cut down on the masturbation, but if you are not having any problems in those areas then you're fine.

Only you can make the judgement about keeping this secret from your wife.

Good for you, for respecting the importance and sanctity of your marriage, and dealing with your urges on your own rather than looking elsewhere!

by gagootza, Oct 03, 2009 10:52PM
To: nortmann
i think you should stop it for a while and try to please your wife,you might find it more pleasurable
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