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i am a 17 year old boy. my problem is that i am not sometimes able to control my sexual desires and i masturbate. can masturbation harm me in any way.how can i control my sexual urges. looking forward for prompt reply. i will be highly obliged
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492898 tn?1222243598
I just figured you like to dive deep, scuba or into a woman. Never thought about the other. Well, whatever, it was not meant as an insult but just explain more about you. LOL, really.

Keep it up. It seems to work well for your health, anyhow, and I actually think it's very sweet. Most people so long married don't have much sex at all.

My friend told me she was visiting her father who is in his seventies and remarried after his earlier wife died several years ago. She was visiting them and they were at it every night when she was there. She could hear them through the walls.
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Hello again,
Katarina777 deep diver doesn't mean i'm going down on a woman! not that it's bad.
I scuba dive!!! :-) LOL
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Hello Katarina777,
I'm sorry for the misinformation! thank god i'm not sick everyday!! or a hypochondriac
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492898 tn?1222243598
That's what I figured you meant. Like, I have some alcohol pretty much every day, like one beer, or so. but last night when I thought about you I realized that I had no drink that day, or the day before because I was sick and I didn't even notice. so, every day means every day with exceptions.
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I'm not angry, just telling that at times no sex!
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Hello katarina777,
Absolutely! if I'm sick I'm not having sex, or if my wife is sick then I'll masturbate!
but yes it's literally every day.


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you have a real good ponit thare...how can you be well ever day.to do this.is it possible ?
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thats good.to be older guys. i dident think this was possible. but i understand your ponit...
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hi katarina. my doubts are thare phsical abilitys and psychological abilitys to .dont you think this is a little strange? i mean wow come on ever single day.
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492898 tn?1222243598
As a woman I thought I should comment. I totally believe deepdiver. (I mean, he is even calls himself deepdiver)   Why would you think that is so strange. The hardest part for me to believe is that they are never too sick to have sex, or one of them, but then it sounds they are really healthy. Sounds like a nice habit, or daily thing to me. And, I don't assume it's like a special date every night with tons of candles and foreplay and all that. I totally believe him.

I sure cannot say that about myself but there were times, you know like when you are starting a new relationship with someone special, where I remember easily 3 times a day.

So, are your doubts about physical ability or about psychological endurance?
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YES! GOOD FOR ME!!
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I am 55 and masturbate or have sex usually once a day. Again no problems or concerns with it. It's only a problem if it negatively affects your life or activities.
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I HAVE SEX WITH MY WIFE OR MASTURBATE EVERY DAY MORNING OR AT NIGHT!!!!
YOU DON'T HAVE TO BELIEVE ME!
WHAT CAN I DO TO MAKE YOU BELIEVE ME?
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Ignore catie - there is nothing harmful about masturbation.  It is totally normal, particularly for someone your age.

And I have no problem believing deepdiver - I don't find what he said to be remotely unlikely!
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177641 tn?1189755837
Masturbate will not harm you. It will not cause bad backs, hair loss, limpness, or anything like that.

Masturbation is actually healthy for you, in moderation. For every person quantity varies. Sometimes once a week is enough, or once a day is enough. How much depends on you.

Just a thought. If you want to last long with a girl, try not to masturbate too quickly. Try to take your time and last longer. It will pay off down the road.
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I'm 63 and started to masturbate at about age 9! I have sex and or masturbate every day
it will not harm you!
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