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Hi aaa im masturbathing 1-2 times a day im 13 yrs old is it right for my age to masturbathe i serously feel like having sex with some one how should i put an end to this plz help me
there are a lot of talk around this topic depending on one's faith, values..etc though its a normal part of life. trust me the last thing you'll want to get yourself into at age thirteen is a sexual relationship. you have now entered this crazy teens and you'll be finding out about a lot of thing here in this world that seemed hidden before. MAKE WISE DECISIONS! take your time, if you feel like your maturely your ready to handle a relationship (not sexual remember!) then proceed but, as from now own every actions has its consequences.
if you are really only 13, what are you doing here? A 13 year old shouldn't spend much time on the computer you need to go outside and interact with real people and not watch computer porn and choke the chicken. It is normal for a 13 to do it a lot but not to be on these web sites
It's perfectly normal for a guy to masturbate once he reaches puberty (and sometimes even before). About 97% of all males have masturbated at sometime during their life, and about 90% continue to do it even after they're married! (About 85% of girls do it too).
It's also normal to do it more often when you're younger because you're still getting used to the new feelings it provides. So, how often is "normal?" That depends. Some guys do it every day, some every once in a while, some do it several times a day. The way to tell if you're doing it too much is to ask yourself, "Is it interfering with other parts of my life?" For example, if you put off other things that you should be doing such as hanging out with your friends, homework, chores, etc. because you have to masturbate RIGHT NOW, it's probably out of control. But, if it's not interfering and you have time on your hands (no pun intended) it's perfectly okay.
Having sex will not make you stop masturbating. Sex with another person is a special relationship where you pay more attention to the other person than yourself. (If you're not mature enough to do that you're not mature enough for sex). Masturbation allows you to totally focus on your own feelings. They're two entirely different things. That's why most married men continue masturbating when they just want to please themselves without using another person selfishly.
At your age forget about having sex for now. There'll be plenty of time for that when you're mature enough to handle the responsibility. Until then, get to know your own body, what you like, and the goodfeelings that go along with it. Just don't let it get out of hand ;)
It's also normal to do it more often when you're younger because you're still getting used to the new feelings it provides. So, how often is "normal?" That depends. Some guys do it every day, some every once in a while, some do it several times a day. The way to tell if you're doing it too much is to ask yourself, "Is it interfering with other parts of my life?" For example, if you put off other things that you should be doing such as hanging out with your friends, homework, chores, etc. because you have to masturbate RIGHT NOW, it's probably out of control. But, if it's not interfering and you have time on your hands (no pun intended) it's perfectly okay.
Having sex will not make you stop masturbating. Sex with another person is a special relationship where you pay more attention to the other person than yourself. (If you're not mature enough to do that you're not mature enough for sex). Masturbation allows you to totally focus on your own feelings. They're two entirely different things. That's why most married men continue masturbating when they just want to please themselves without using another person selfishly.
At your age forget about having sex for now. There'll be plenty of time for that when you're mature enough to handle the responsibility. Until then, get to know your own body, what you like, and the goodfeelings that go along with it. Just don't let it get out of hand ;)
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whenever there is a natural urge,masturbate and enjoy. there should not be any guilt about masturbating. it is a natural habit.Masturbation will do no harm if your general health is good and responding to natural urge..
Now getting a partner to do intercourse , remember it is two way process.Partner should be as willing as you are.Intercourse entails responsibility as well.Be calm about it and wait patiently. you will get a chance if you are healthy and likable.
Best of luck.
Now getting a partner to do intercourse , remember it is two way process.Partner should be as willing as you are.Intercourse entails responsibility as well.Be calm about it and wait patiently. you will get a chance if you are healthy and likable.
Best of luck.
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