oh by the way, masturbation is really not going to solve the problem. it may cause problems if anything (no sexual excitement)
Hi, I am 33 years old and still have not figured out how to stroke real fast without cumming. LOL.
I think it depends on the goodness of the vagina because there were some in the past I could stroke very fast and still take a long time to cumm. With that being said, you need to realize you have some pretty good stuff.
As far as the sex, I assume you're on BC and yall don't use a condom. Perhaps you should try out the lambskin condoms. They are very very thin and wet/lubricated (they make sex feel like 95% the real thing).
If he use this condom, it may help him to control his sexual urges. I use them and they work very well.
Or maybe he buy some desensitizer lube like MAN-DELAY. But that may cause some side reactions. I recommend my first option, using the lambskin condom and you can buy these in a Walmart, Riteaid, any pharmaceutical store.
you guys should have communication while you have intercourse, not the whole time, but tell your boyfriend to tell you when he is about to "blow" and then you guys can slow things down and stop, and when he ready to go again, you can start up again and continue, you will not lose the rush because this feeling for the guy should go away in few seconds, and in the end you will be able to be satisfied and pleasured and he will be even more than satisfied because he will probably experience something he never has before and he will be very happy that you are his girlfriend. just have some communication so both of you can have a good time. I hope this works. :)