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my vagina doesnt open up :(

hi im 24 my husband is 28. we tried to have sex 4-5 days. but we cant. it seems like my vagina is not big enough for his penis :( and, i can insert one finger.when i insert one finger, on the upper side i feel a bone. is that suppose to be there? i mean, if there is a bone it cant expand more than that.....  so what do i do? and im sri lankan no sex before marriage etc so im virgin.thanks for your help.
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you should try other sex position like doggy style and ask your husband to go slow in first few times...
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Hi this condition is called vaginismus.actually there is a bone.what is your built...thin ....fat........

Try changing the position....try put a pillow under your buttock.


good luck

Dr Dissana
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What type of sex literature is available in your country? (guides) I am personally unfamiliar with Sri Lanka but their are good guides that might help that I could suggest but am unaware of your censorship laws, if any?
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try using lube and it is going to hurt the 1st time.
if that does not work then see a Dr.
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