no air bubble in condom after sex....HELP!!!!

Question

I had sex with my boyfriend on the night of dec 11th and noon time on dec 12th with no condom... I had sex with my ex with a condom on dec 14th... and it last for about 7mins... so right when he was climaxing I pulled his penis out by the base slowly and when I looked at it there was no air and very little clear semen in the condom... there were no obvious tares or rips so I know that it didnt bust... but I was moist afterwards... but im usually like that around the time I ovulate... so anyways I had unprotected sex again with my boyfriend on the 17th of dec... my last period was november 30th and my cycle is 30 days... so now Im currently prego and my due date is sept.7th so what Im basically asking is could my ex be the father of my baby???

nina1123 · Answer

Smh...I know...its just soooo stressful...thanks for the advice...

thurmoid · Answer

Quit worrying about it, it will drive you crazy if you don't.  The fact is you are going to have a baby that you should love and care for.  It really doesn't matter who the father is.  I raised a child that I knew was not mine but I loved him the same as the two I knew were mine.  So chill out and love the baby and which ever man helps in raising him the right way is his/her father.

nina1123 · Answer

Tanks and it does kind of make me feel better....but yea i told them both...so now its a waiting game...but with you and your spouse there was never an air bubble?...did it look vaccumed?

mimikittel11983 · Answer

hey girl! just so happens my sis is due 9-6-11, and she got pregnant on 12-10-10! hope this helps!! and there was never air bubbles in the condoms after my hubby and i were done that i noticed!! i would def. say i think you got preggo w/ the guy w/out the condom, but you do need to let them both know that there is a chance it's not there's and you need to be honest!! it may suck, but it's the best thing to do now!!!!

Devium · Answer

If the condom looked "vacumed on" it could be that from sex the air bubble was pushed up and out. Given how physical and forceful sex can be that's probably what happened. I've had it happen to me and actually went to the bathroom after and checked if it had a rip or hole because I wasn't on birth control at the time. 
I think you should be fine but if you are still worried get a paternity test done and that can put that problem out of your mind.

avisg · Answer

there was most likey a rip in the condom .....I has it happen to me once  another time had one come off durning sex as well never a good thing
avis

nina1123 · Answer

And i dont think i will need a dna test because the two men are different races.. so ill know who it is when its born...I just wanted opinions on the condom thing...and still wondering where the air went????

nina1123 · Answer

smh...i know i shouldnt have cheated but at the time when it happend my current boyfriend and i had broke up right after we had sex on the 12th... and i honestly thought it was gonna be over after that...so i had sex with my ex thinking that was gonna make feel better but in reality it made me feel like crap...but where could the air have gone?. it looked suctioned together like all the air was vaccumed out but there was nothing leaking out...it was weird...

avisg · Answer

The times are so close honestly it could be either .You will have to do an dna test I would that with days that close together .Either way you will have a little bundle of joy that I am sure you will love to death .Did you tell them both there is a possabilty?

Vance2335 · Answer

Both people would need to be tested to see who the father is. Most likely it is the current boyfriend based on the info above.

BrOkEn_FoRgOtEn_HeArT · Answer

first of all why did u do that with ur ex thats cheating ( i hate cheaters) but u shouldnt worry and if u do u can jus get tested its very easy but dont cheat agian ohk this is telling u sumthing if u listen : \