no orgasm!

[lovelovelove123]

ive had sex many times
with many sizes,
good and bad,
but i have stillllll not gotten an orgasm.
i allways have to fake cause they get so damn detirmined to make me have one and it just starts hurting.
i dont know what to dooo!
everyone tells me how thier so amazing
I WANT ONE!!!

tips?

[amcmiddle]

i think the "peeing" feeling is the best way to describe a woman actually ejaculating.  I am on medication that prevents me from having orgasms but from years back, what I recall is that when I did have an orgasm i sometimes tried to stop myself because I actually felt like I was peeing, then realized it was ejaculation.

clitoris stimulation is the only thing that really gets me feeling like I could possibly have an orgasm (if my medication didn't prevent me from having one).

have you tried the little vibrating silver bullet that you can buy from sex shops?  I found that to work wonders.  you might have to use it on your own to find the right spot, it can be tricky but once found you will know, your body will almost feel like there is an electric shock going through it, well, atleast that is my experience.  

[Blue08]

as you said "peeing' sensation"
are you talking about ejaculation..??   Or orgasim too..??
cause what i know peeing feeling make a women wants to ejaculate..  I give my women orgasim some time 3 to 5 orgasim but mostly 2..  But i was never able to give her ejaculation..
You gave a very good advice to lovelovelove.. so i though i should ask you about ejaculation and orgasim more in detail.. I feel very great when my women get orgasim and makes sounds loudly..

[jessieleigh1982]

I HAVE NEVER RECEIVED ONE FROM PENETRATION!  sometimes woman can't either..... i have however got one from clitoris stimulation and that seems to work for me.  my mom used to tell me that woman are all mental when it comes to this and some woman can go there whole life w/o one and in some cases a woman might not experience this until there like 30.  i didn't get one until i was 19 and it was a woman that got me there.  it took like 2 months of trying before it happened.  the best advice i can give you is there is this particular feeling like a "peeing' sensation that you feel at first you don't like it so you may move or stop so as to not feel this cause it feels scary at first.  indulge this feeling. when you feel this way that means that your on the right track the key here is to almost push it out to help you reach the climax.  when your legs are shaking and you kinda feel real warm just right around "there" then your close.  the whole point tho is to feel very comfortable with someone and relaxed cuz if your worried about it and concious of it then you probably wont have one.  but try other things like cunnilingus before you count yourself out some woman are just not built to get them w/ only penetration.  

[iam1butterfly]

Have you tried a variety of positions?
Some are better than others... orgasm-wise.
Both female on top and rear entry (not anal) but, the spooning position seem to enhance penetration which helps in the achievement of orgasms... at least, that's what works for me. If you've tried these positions and had no orgasm, then you might want to try using a vibrator. Like sexual positions, some vibrators perform better than others.
I highly recommend the type that both vibrates and rotates.