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often feel a tear at my fourchette after sex.

Hi, im 19 this year, and my boyfriend is 33 this year. We have been together for almost 3 years. I always have sex with my boyfriend, and i enjoy it. But sometimes, when my boyfriend tries to insert his penis, i feel tight down there. But im wet already, if wet, ahould be easier to insert. But nvm, im always excited. So he will just try to force it in. I feel a little pain usually at the start of having sex and after sex. Usually after we have sex finish, i will use tissue to wipe off some of my liquid first then wear my panties and clothing out and wash. But usually when i wipe of gently, theres a little blood on the tissue. I asked my boyfriend to see my bottom, he told me my fourchette tear a little.. Isit normal to always bleed at the fourchette..?
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Can u also answer, its my first time that bleed my fourchette what I do? Hope will be heal
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If this is your first time having sex, then yes, it will heal. It should already be healing, and the bleeding should stop soon, though you may have some pain for a few days. If you are bleeding a lot, or still bleeding after several hours, you may need to see a doctor.

If you continue to have sex, make sure you are lubricated enough. You will learn what helps you do this over time, but foreplay always helps. You may also want to use lube.

https://rightasrain.uwmedicine.org/life/sex/its-not-just-childbirth-can-give-you-vaginal-tear

Hope you feel better soon!
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Ok. Thanks for letting me know that. I didnt noe. I tot its all the same..
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It is not safe to just take someone else's medication unless you consult your doctor. Taking anti-biotics that are not prescribed to you can be dangerous and you should never do that. If you think you may have an infection, which it sound like you may, you need to see your doctor and have them prescribe the correct anti-biotic for your specific infection. Not all anti-biotics are the same, as there are different kinds for different infections. Don't ever take someone else's medication, as it is just not a good idea.
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If cause other problem then im fine? Ok i think im fine, after my fourchette tear that day, i took my boyfriend's antibiotic and ate it twice a day. And im feeling better, n my discharges doesnt have smell anymore, after my fourchette tear that day, my discharges was very awful, smells very fishy. I took anti biotic becos everytime i have infection or anything, doctor will give me antibiotic. And my bf antibiotic was given to him by doctor for other health issues like cough or headache. Its the same kind of antibioic medicine right..
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Vaginal discharge is completely normal and every female gets it. Unless the discharge is a color other than clear or white, if it smells fishy, if it itches, or if it causes other problems, then you are fine. The above list are signs of an infection, but normal daily discharge is completely normal.
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Ok thanks.. And i often have a discharge of phelm colour.. Wif no smell. In the past i will see doctor if i have infections. But when i took medicines, n cured. I still have discharge daily and the colour is like phelm.. Wifout odour. Isit normal? Sorry, im very enxious od all this.. But my friends told me they all dun have discharges everyday, but i do have n seen doctor..
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It's unlikely to be a disease. Just wait a while and then see how it is later. If you are still having issues tomorrow, then see your doctor to find out what is going on. I also recommend that you do some research on sex and how everything works.
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Omgoodness. Now, i just finish having sex. I was relaxing. My fourchette didnt tear nor bleed. Now my para-urethral duet and fourchette is very swollen, its very soft. My para-urethral duet is popping out off my vagina when i wash it jus now. My fourchette is also swollen n soft, as in it feels like bloated or being pumped.. I duno y this happen as i was feeling normal. And this happened before. But after awhile when the swell is gone maybr like few hours later, its back to normal, not swollen anymore.. Omg isit any disease...????
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Oh so u mean if my muscles tense up, my fourchette will tear if my boyfriend insert his penis into my vagina due to muscles tensed? Oh i will try... Hope it doesnt tear anymore. So my situation is normal? Very thanks for advicing me...
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Try different positions and make sure you are completely comfortable, because if you are the slightest bit nervous or uneasy, your muscles will tense up without you even realizing it.
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But im already vert wet usually.. And i feel that he's is kinda too big for me.. So when he puts it in i feel tat my fourchette area is expanding and tears a little. After sex my fourchette will bleed a little. But other possitions sometimes i wont bleed. But if i bleed after sex sometimes and is my fourchette area tear a bit, isit abnormal?
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You should not bleed during sex. If he is tearing you, try other positions to see if that helps or use extra lubricant. Don't allow him to just force himself in you.
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I check google, the part usually abit tear and abit bleed and when wash vagina after having sex, the paib area and tear a little name is. Posterior fourchette. Somebody! Help me pls.. Is this normal..? I also want to add something, my boyfriends penis is quite big, he's taller then me around a head..
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