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ok im a pervert n i dont know what to do
Well, i just got done masterbating to porn. Its not that i wanted to, but you know how guys are, the penis is sometimes stronger than my will. But for a week, i havent looked at porn. I was proud of myself. But last night i had a dream about looking at porn magazines under my bed, because thats what i used to do as a teenager. It felt kinda orgasmic in my dream, and if it wasnt for that, i wouldnt have masterbated. Im just sick of putting it always in my head, and i just want to think of my wife. Sometimes when im with my wife, anxiety happens, and it just *****. And i dont want to beat myself up over it. Ive been doing this for probably 17 yrs now. Its like im a pro at it, and i think its whats keeping me from acheiving my ultimate goals. . What should i do about this?
I think what the OP is getting at, is that you just spat out... "See a Therapist" instead of explaining yourself as to WHY he should seek therapy.
If you would listen to me my advice is helpful. You said you don't want to do it but you do it anyway. Shows signs of possible addiction so therpy helps.
you can do it man.... let your wife be the only one to touch your penis and trust me your penis will adjust and respond more to your wife. you need to get your wife back!
Ur a big help Vance
Secondly, thanks Myron_Long. I have tried that thing for 30 days before. It was hard but i did it, and it felt great. But after that, I havent been the same since. I just cant help it sometimes. But 2nite i just put a porn blocker on my computer. It cost me $25, but its well worth it.
Secondly, thanks Myron_Long. I have tried that thing for 30 days before. It was hard but i did it, and it felt great. But after that, I havent been the same since. I just cant help it sometimes. But 2nite i just put a porn blocker on my computer. It cost me $25, but its well worth it.
You don't need a therapist. Refrain from masturbation for at least 30 days and your penis will start to react more to your wife rather than from the pleasure of your hand. It's called reversing the condition. You need to communicate to your wife and let her know you have a psychological/masturbation issue going on and you need to refrain from masturbation and sex for the next 30 days just to get your mind and penis right. Your wife will understand because your wife wants a healthy sex life. Please follow my advice because I use to have the same issues you had but one day I decided to stop masturbating completely. After 30 days, my penis became more responsive to real sex and it was one of the greatest feelings in the world eversince.
I DON'T MASTURBATE!
I DON'T MASTURBATE!
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