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hi i need u r help i had oral sex with a middle aged women must be around 37 that women is a widow and living with kids and she gave me a ******** and hand job for me is it harmful will i get aids or any other bad disease i am really worried pls help me frnds . ......
Giving Oral Sex
If you are giving someone oral sex, there is a risk of infection, since pre-***, semen, vaginal secretions and menstrual blood can get into your mouth. The more of these body fluids you are exposed to, the greater the risk of infection there would be. If you have any open sores, cuts, abrasions or gum disease in your mouth, the virus can get into your bloodstream. The risk is less than if you had vaginal or anal intercourse, but the risk is real, and transmission can occur. There have already been reported cases of HIV infection specifically through giving oral sex. In addition to HIV, while giving oral sex, you could also be at risk for other sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) including herpes and gonorrhea and even syphilis.
Now, when we're talking about the levels of risk when you give someone oral sex, several variables actually determine the true level of risk. Let's look now, for example, at the risks of giving a man oral sex:
Both pre-*** and semen can contain high concentrations of HIV. Semen, however, is a riskier body fluid, because you are normally exposed to a greater quantity of semen as compared to pre-***. Does that mean that pre-*** is totally safe? No! But we can say that the more infectious body fluid you are exposed to, the greater the likelihood of transmission. So, you can become infected by pre-*** alone, but you are much more likely to become infected if the guy cums in your mouth, since you're then exposed to a much greater quantity of his body fluid.
Of course, the virus must also be able to get into your bloodstream through some type of open sore, abrasion, gum disease, etc. The more openings that HIV has to get into your bloodstream, the greater your risk would be. So the more cuts or open sores in your mouth, the greater the risk would be. Or if a person has gum disease, the more severe the gum disease is, the greater the risk would be.
Without ejaculation, there still is some risk of getting infected through giving oral sex, but the risk would be much greater if the man ejaculated in your mouth. So rather than saying high risk vs. low risk, it's actually a spectrum of risk.
If you are giving someone oral sex, there is a risk of infection, since pre-***, semen, vaginal secretions and menstrual blood can get into your mouth. The more of these body fluids you are exposed to, the greater the risk of infection there would be. If you have any open sores, cuts, abrasions or gum disease in your mouth, the virus can get into your bloodstream. The risk is less than if you had vaginal or anal intercourse, but the risk is real, and transmission can occur. There have already been reported cases of HIV infection specifically through giving oral sex. In addition to HIV, while giving oral sex, you could also be at risk for other sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) including herpes and gonorrhea and even syphilis.
Now, when we're talking about the levels of risk when you give someone oral sex, several variables actually determine the true level of risk. Let's look now, for example, at the risks of giving a man oral sex:
Both pre-*** and semen can contain high concentrations of HIV. Semen, however, is a riskier body fluid, because you are normally exposed to a greater quantity of semen as compared to pre-***. Does that mean that pre-*** is totally safe? No! But we can say that the more infectious body fluid you are exposed to, the greater the likelihood of transmission. So, you can become infected by pre-*** alone, but you are much more likely to become infected if the guy cums in your mouth, since you're then exposed to a much greater quantity of his body fluid.
Of course, the virus must also be able to get into your bloodstream through some type of open sore, abrasion, gum disease, etc. The more openings that HIV has to get into your bloodstream, the greater your risk would be. So the more cuts or open sores in your mouth, the greater the risk would be. Or if a person has gum disease, the more severe the gum disease is, the greater the risk would be.
Without ejaculation, there still is some risk of getting infected through giving oral sex, but the risk would be much greater if the man ejaculated in your mouth. So rather than saying high risk vs. low risk, it's actually a spectrum of risk.
The guy received oral, what you posted talks about the person who was giving oral. Receiving oral sex is really no risk.
Answer:
The risk of getting HIV through receiving oral sex is very, very low.
We can't say that there's zero risk, because there are a few cases of HIV infection in people who have no other known risk factors for HIV.
Also, we can imagine a scenario where an HIV-positive person's mouth is bleeding when he or she is giving oral sex. This could increase the risk of infecting the partner. But, in general, transmitting HIV to someone receiving oral sex is probably a very rare occurrence.
The risk of getting HIV through giving oral sex is low compared with unprotected vaginal or anal sex, but there is some risk. The risk appears to be higher if you have cuts or sores in your mouth. Risk also appears to increase with the amount of your partner's fluids that contact your mouth and throat. If there is blood in these fluids, that probably increases the risk as well.
Of course, if your partner is not HIV infected, there is no risk of getting HIV. But if your partner is HIV positive, or you are not sure, it makes sense to use a condom or other barrier (a latex sheet, for example) for oral sex.
The risk of getting HIV through receiving oral sex is very, very low.
We can't say that there's zero risk, because there are a few cases of HIV infection in people who have no other known risk factors for HIV.
Also, we can imagine a scenario where an HIV-positive person's mouth is bleeding when he or she is giving oral sex. This could increase the risk of infecting the partner. But, in general, transmitting HIV to someone receiving oral sex is probably a very rare occurrence.
The risk of getting HIV through giving oral sex is low compared with unprotected vaginal or anal sex, but there is some risk. The risk appears to be higher if you have cuts or sores in your mouth. Risk also appears to increase with the amount of your partner's fluids that contact your mouth and throat. If there is blood in these fluids, that probably increases the risk as well.
Of course, if your partner is not HIV infected, there is no risk of getting HIV. But if your partner is HIV positive, or you are not sure, it makes sense to use a condom or other barrier (a latex sheet, for example) for oral sex.
You do not get HIV from receiving oral sex. The only thing you could get is NGU, Gonorrhea, syphilis and herpes. Syphilis and herpes is not very common via oral sex. NGU and gonorrhea are the most common but getting an STD via oral sex is not very common. It is low risk, it does happen but like I said low risk.
So she pleasured you only, and not vice versa? I think you will live. She's the one who took the risk, not you.
you say "she seems to have no disease and she has not had sex for past 2 yrs "
that's what she told you, is it true??
that's what she told you, is it true??
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