painful sex

hello, this is a two part question. first of all when i was 16 i had sex for the first time. it was painful buti thought this was normal. i then tried again but it was still painful. the penis wouldnt even go in very far. i wasnt sure if my hymen broke. i then went for a pap test. everything went fine, although it was a bit painful. question 1. does the hymen have to be broken in order for one to have a pap test? it has been 5 years since i first attempted having sex and i am still unsuccessful. is it possible that my boyfriend's penis is too big? question2. is there something i can do to actually have sex!? it is getting frustrating.

[CurleyGirl7]

1. No.
2. Go to the gynecologist and get an exam. You might have an abnormally thick hymen that needs to be "surgically" broken by a doctor. Sometimes, even if the hymen is broken, pieces of it can still be in your vagina causing an abstruction.
Best advice is to go to a doctor to make sure everything is alright.