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partial lost of orgasm

after having an anxiety on an std after a protected intercourse with a sex worker,i've partial lost ma orgasm,i get erection but i dn't feel like having sex,it take a few second before i can gain an erection while watching pornos,unlike before,only the tot of sex can get me aroused but now i've lost it but while having a close body contact with a girl or romance,i get an erection fast without dat,i won't gain a strong erection.i dn't knw wat is wrong with me,i love to sex but now i don't knw wat is happening.
But i believe it's partial since i do gain erection fast while  romancing a girl and masturbating but don't gain it fast while thinking of sex or watching porno,what do u think,help me out?
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Oh, yeah, for sure it could be anxiety. You had sex for your first time.

Ok, I get it.

You are good to go.

I can't gurantee 100% that you won't have any problems again, but almost.

Just let nature take it's course and you will be back to normal. If you think about it to much, it's likely to mess you up more.

Yeah, it's anxiety and yes, you will be ok.

Good thing you are a good worker, because now you can concentrate all your energy on working to get rid of the anxiety.
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the only reason why am scared is because it's my first time of having sex and she's a sex worker.
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i knw i've no std cos my test results are negective and i had a protected intercouse.the probs is this,i no longer get a fast erection on like before,i don't gain a fast erection while watching porns but i do get erection anyway but not as fast as before.could anxiety(fears) cos that? Some says i'll be fine that am just scared to have sex i.e a pyschological problem..read carefully u'll understand
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I don't mean to offend you, but I am curious because of how you typed it, was it anxiety from thinking you could have a STD, or anxiety because of getting a STD?

If it's thinking you could have a STD, then you need to go to a doctor, although worrying won't help you, if you think you have one, then only a negative test result  would probably let you stop worrying.

If it was protected intercourse, then you should be fine, should be. Why is it if you had protected intercourse you think you have a STD?
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