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penis frenulum breve

I;m 26, and have had an active sex life, but i sometimes experience some discomfort on entry if i dont use lube, or if i am being masturbated by my girlfirend, sometimes i flinch if the foreskin comes back too far. I went to see a urologist, and he said i need an op to cut the frenulum and re-sow lower down. Has anyone had this op? what is it like after? Does the foreskin still roll back on its own? I am told the frenulum is like a g-spot for men but mine is painfull when aural sex is performed on me. I have never been in hospital for anything, so i am wondering if i need this op? advise please?
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No problem.
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thanks. I've shown her the various techniques for hand jobs, and she does them very well ;-)  But, we both get a bit carried away in the bedroom, and thats when the problem occurs. I will have to think this one through. thanks for your replys.
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There are other solutions, they just have to fit you.

If you masturbate about 4 or 5 hours before you have sex, you will "toughen" the skin so that when you go to have sex, it shouldn't hurt. Also, just keeping a small tube of lube (they make the very small) on you can work for quick needs.

Just so you know, now that you know sex (when it's pleasurable) as you do, if and when you get cut, there is a great chance you will not get as much pleasure as you did. Also, when it comes to hand jobs, if you haven't tried it already, go and do the actions with her watching of you masturbating, and also have her put her hand on yours as you do it, so that she knows the motions and speed, and also where to grab and hold the shaft. This can lead to more pleasurable hand jobs. As far as the oral sex, if you have her keep the skin above the penis, it can work out. I am very open and communicative with my wife, so we have worked it out.

When she takes care of me the right way, and slowly, I am so glad I am not cut and I have the sensitivity I do. Please don't get me wrong, if you decide to go with the surgery, I hope all the best for you and that you have a long happy sex life.
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Hi,

thanks for the long responce, much appreciated. On entry, i actually do that same as it, it takes a couple of attempt to insert my penis with the skin up, but providing she is wet, it is ok. Like you though, i do find oral sex irritating and sometimes she pulls back too far when giving me a hand job. I think i do need to have the op because i dont want to be restricted to penetrative sex, afterall, its not always possible in certain situations, but the other two things are.
I just wish there was an easier solution rather than an operation!
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It is up to you if you want to be cut or not.

I personally did not do it. It is something that you make a personal choice if you want it done. There are pros and cons to getting cut.

The pros:
Your penis is more sensitive so if you get cut, you will not have the same sensitivity, this will over a small time of recuperation make it so that you are able to have sex without the pain and irritation.
You will not have to worry about how much and often you have to clean your penis. You will not get the same infection, rashes, chaffing, and irritation that you have had.

The cons:
Since your penis is more sensitive, if you get cut, there is a chance sex or stimulation will not be as pleasurable as it was. While certain things are problems because of the sensitivity, there are benefits with it being so sensitive.
You will go for a nice little while of not even wanting to be turned on or morning erections or even walking. Getting cut will put a dent in your sex life temporarily.

I am not cut, and I have the same problems you do. However, this is a chance for your girlfriend and you to get experimental with what can and cannot be done. Also, if the penis is not dry under the skin, it will cause discomfort, but, if you dry it first (take the skin down, dry it) you should be ok. When you go to enter her, if you keep the skin up, you can usually be ok after that. The best idea is to get her wet before sex. After she is wet, and you enter with the skin over the head, you should be ok. It is up to you, I chose to not get cut, I cannot get off from oral sex, and I have my cleaning habits I keep, and..........I can get discomfort also, but I have learned how to make it work good for me. I have learned how to have maximum pleasure with and because of not being cut.
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