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premature ejaculation
I have been with my wife for going on 5 years now, we got married a little over a year ago so before when we used to have sex I would use a condom. After we got married I stopped using them but ejaculated faster then I wanted to, I figured I had to get used to the feeling without a condom. It has been almost a year with having sex 3-4 a week and I still can't last more then 3-4 minutes during sex. Most of the time she doesn't have an orgasm during sex, I feel this is really starting to affect our sex life as a young couple. We can't experience the sex that either of us would like to have. We have tried creams/sprays, **** rings, some pills that are supposed to make you last longer, and not a single one has worked. I am 23 years old, in great shape, and I don't have a single problem with my health. I am in the military and get very uncomfortable when I am away that she is getting the sex she deserves from someone who can make her orgasm. Can anyone give us any advice on this situation?
I'm just more curious if there is anything to help PE that doesn't involve an anti-depressant medication
as the saying goes ... its not the size tht matters. but how you put it to work. there are many different ways to satisfy a women with a 5 inch penis. different sex positions and circular motions . you just have to try new things.
thanks for the advice everyone, we dont use condoms because she doesnt like them and it takes her twice as long to orgasm with one on. I have gotten her to orgasm before I penetrate but she doesnt seem as into the sex when I have done that and it can be kinda hard for her to stay wet afterwards. She is being very patient with me, I have read almost everything I can on pe and have tired alot of the methods but nothing seems to work. I just recently read something on excersices a male can do on his own to help elminate pe for good, I am kinda undecided on it. I'm curious if anyone else out there has tried them, or knows someone who has? And do they actually work?
what about if you have only average size penis like 5 inches will that be ok also to satisfay them?
well ,, my boyfriend and i had the same problem . but it seems that if you go without a condom but go slower in your movements you maybe able to last longer. and soon enough,, you can start moving a little faster each time. there are many different ways to enjoy sex. . you can do it passionately or rough . and as for your wife . she should be patient and faithful. and if she isnt getting the satisfaction she wants you caould try oral sex on her ... or fingereing her until she is satisfied. sex needs compromise.
I have some experience of this from the female point of view. While I know there are techniques that can help in being able to somewhat control ejaculation, it doesn't always work for everyone. Stop worrying about how long it takes you and focus on her. Give her plenty of time to get into the mood, get excited - and sometimes even orgasm - before you penetrate. If you finish before she does, help her finish in other ways. Most women don't have the ability to think of sex and orgasm within a couple minutes time. Ask her what she likes - what turns her on - what she wants you to do for her. And do it. Give her an hour before you take your few minutes... see what happens. If she still has no success after several attempts, she may be having problems reaching orgasm and should see a doctor. But it's probably not the case as 3-4 minutes is rarely enough time for a woman to reach orgasm.
Most women don't come during sex (sex meaning penetration). It's the foreplay/after-something that women tend to climax (or at least, this has mostly been the case in my sex life). Maybe you could make her come before you enter and use a condom when you do. That way you will last longer and she will have her pleasure as well.
You could also try some different positions. Some positions (I don't have my book here, so if you want I can get the list in a week or so) give significantly less "pleasure" to the man, making him last longer.
And you could also try to have sex twice on an evening. It is commonly known that a man lasts longer the second time.
Hope this helps you and good luck!
You could also try some different positions. Some positions (I don't have my book here, so if you want I can get the list in a week or so) give significantly less "pleasure" to the man, making him last longer.
And you could also try to have sex twice on an evening. It is commonly known that a man lasts longer the second time.
Hope this helps you and good luck!
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