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quick masturbation

the process end in less then a minute

is that normal if not what should I do?
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I would say yes, kinda would affect your performance or rather ability to orgasm... i found that the more I used to masturbate... the harder it was to orgasm when I was with a girl, i think mainly because I got used to orgasmin' in my own way... then I stopped masturbating completely and just had sex and orgasms, although still took a long time ( lucky me and lucky her ) were easier.
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oh I forgot to ask will my action {masturbate every day} effect on my performance when I have sex with a women??
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but I almost do it every day

how I can organize it so I can do it 3 times per week?
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I am not sure but I think that if you don´t masturbate at all, it will just bring a lot of tension to you, and then sometimes the ejaculation can happen even in a shorter time when you have so much tension inside, or ejaculations can occur at night during your sleep. If you don´t masturbate at all for some time and if you are young with a high sex drive, it can have a lot of "funny" results, e.g. ejaculations or orgasm without touching your genitals (at night or during the day sometimes), for example if you have not masturbated too long, then you can start thinking about something very sexual / arousing and if you focus on your erotic fantasy, you will experience not just erections, but if you are able to focus on the fantasy longer without touching your penis and without physical stimulation, you can reach orgasm in this way, just by your super-excited mind. Such an orgasm can be very interesting, but it is hard to resist the tempation to touch your penis and just focus on the fantasy (if you manage it, the orgasm can be maybe longer).
But sometimes spontaneous ejaculations and orgasms can be quite disturbing, so masturbation is a good way how to regulate your sexual needs, if you feel the urge to masturbate, I would not recommend to stop masturbating completely.
Good luck
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I have done what you have said but it is diffculit

if I don't masturbate at all will it be back to normal?
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I forgot to say thank you
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how do I know it worked
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1101690 tn?1268499639
yes, it is normal, especially if you are young. Probably it will last longer, if you masturbate regularly later. For example, you can try to do it again soon after the ejaculation or you can try to masturbate when you don´t feel very horny, then it can last a little bit longer. If you get used to masturbating regularly, you can experiment in this way - after a short period of stimulation, you can stop for a while, then continue. If you bring yourself close to orgasm, then stop for a while, then do it again, the orgasm should be even more intense. I think that it will improve a lot with your age and "practice".
Good luck.
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