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I'm a 40 year old woman with  a 32 year old boyfriend. We been together for 4.5 years. Sex has been great, the last time we were together he said I was dry after five minutes and now he thinks I been with someone. Can you help me with why this might be happening. I have been faithful to him. I think it might be my diet, I have not been eating healthly. Do I need to see a Doctor or can I fix this myself.
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I'm not a doctor! but I know as woman age,and hormones change this happens.
speak to your doctor.
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You can always use lube to help out. Sorry to say but this 32 year old sounds like a 18 year old from his reaction. Even if you were having sex with someone else that would not have any effect on how wet or dry you were.
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Lube would definitly help and for some reason a few friends and I have noticed a correlation between dry mouth and a dry vaginal so I would make sure that you're hydrated as well.

Best of Luck!
~S.A.
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It just happens from time to time and there does not even have to be a reason for it. If your boyfriend is that old and does not know that by now, you might want to rethink your relationship.
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He should know by now that a woman does not stay wet all the time, sometime we do dry out.  I believe that is one of the reasons why KY jel was created. Maybe he should take more time in trying to keep you wet.
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I'm 40 years old and my boyfriend is 31 years old and he gets soft during sex and sometimes when he first puts it in he gets soft too. and he says I don't get wet enough. We been together for 4.5 years mrs.duran
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