thnx for everybody to comment about my question...
sorry if i was shameless but when i said its embarrassing us i mean it..
and its not normal to speak about it...
and i didnt know that is the wrong section to post my question cuz im new on this site....
thanx for help again and sorry if somebody missunderstand me....
Try to use some lubrication. It may make things a little easier.
Maybe she is still a virgin at 36 that is why its too tight.
good luck and best wishes!
You need to consult a gynecologist to rectify this problem even though it's embarrassing. It's more common than you think - good luck.