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unable to aroused sexually?
l have a Loving companion, he's very patient with me, but! he enjoy having Sex more than 3-times a week, my problem is, l'm unable to be aroused to the point to where l can have sex, it's very upsetting, please help me?



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                                    Sadie
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Everyone's desire levels are different.  I have a very high sex drive and my wife not so much.  Our solution?  Just have less sex.  If he values your opinion he will simply tone it down a litlte and masturbate when he needs a release.  

Do you not feel any arousal whatsoever?  If not, that could totally be normal too as some women do not at all.  I would say, first, try having sex fewer times a week and see what happens.  If you still do not feel aroused, talk to your mom or close friends.  
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Yes! as a matter of fact, l can get seriously arouse to the point of wanting to orgasm..But! When it comes to engaging in intercourse, l Lose it totally, l can't talk to my Mom, she died almost 30-yrs. ago..

On my own, l can reallly get turned on to the point of Orgasm, but can't get over to the point of Orgasm..you might say, l'm just @ the edge..But no release of tension..

lt's very upsetting, l want to be able to have a Climax!! l get just to the edge, & nothing..
l can tell you this much, l was extremely truned on once with my Companion, but! nothing took place..                                   Carla429
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Are there any people in the medical field, that post answers on here..
l have a preplexing question..
Will Medications effect a womens Sex Drive, or lack there of?  l take alot of meds.
& feel like my Sex Drive is in the Cellar..l know how it feels to get really turned on, but l can't get to the point of Orgasm..

l have alot of Sexual Tension built up! it's been Yrs. since l've had any release..l get just to the edge, & not able to Climax..l think if l did reach a Climax, l'd probably Orgasm (s) 3-to 5-time in a row..one after another..

l can read sexual stories from people on my Computer, & feel my Clit swell & throb, & thats that!!  & my Nipples get hard..

Masterbation doesn't help, just gets me to the edge, l'm not able to Climax!!

My companion & l practice alot of Sexual Fore-Play..

                                                         Carla429
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