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very low arousal lifelong and delayed ejaculation

Help!

I am really worried.

I tried have sex in june and july with a woman (she don't attracted me but i tried the same). I tried 6 or 7 times but sometimes i had only erection without orgasm and sometimes i had no erection, i masturbate myself, i kept hard some minute and the penis fall down quickly.

My andrologist gave me CIALIS 20mg but this help erection not orgasm!!!

I tried have sex in 2009 also. For one week night and day i tried have sex. I obtained erection but never orgasm.
That girl also didn't excite much me.

I had a girlfriend from 2000 to 2006. We had few sex but at least with her i had several orgasm. One per session and not frequently.

Each time i have sex for me is "like a masturbation but more difficult". I think to the same things i think when i masturbate myself. Never i think to the partner in sex.

But i want to have sex with orgasm! When i masturbate myself i have orgasm in 6 7 minutes. In vagina or in other loveplays i never cone.

I wull try to have better performances wuth aid of hypnosis.

I read also that finally there is a lot of drugs for have orgasn and not only for erection.

Amantadine
Buspiron
Cabergoline
Ciproheptadine
Raboxetine
Mirtazapine
Yohimbine
And so on

In 2014 a.d. There is not sex problem that can not be solved.

I have most probably only a psychogenous problem because in solo mode i am ok.

Please let me know suggest to solve. Is a question of life. Many thanks
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Many thanks.

Hypnosis can help me? May i tp be resetted to better appreciate sex?
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Usually sexologist suggest baby steps to be taken, keeping sub goals, like to be wit a girlfriend, then embracing or cuddling with clothes on., then with out cloths, then placing touching genitals. when you reach each goals successful, then only you go for intercourse. .For this technique you need a help from your partner.Just cuddling for half an hour and not doing intercourse, can acclimatize you to be natural and able to do intercourse.You can search for this type of technique .
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