we have different libidos:I want more,my boyfriend no

[cleopatra1234]

I'm 33 years old and my boyfriend 34.We have been dating for one and a half year.We see each other 3 times a week,slepping at least 2 together.We have a great relationship,and i can see a future together.the only problem is our very diferent sex drives.I love sex,and would do it at night and mornings if he wanted,and a little more on weekends....but he is fine with one,maybe two times a week,and has been this way since we began dating.I dont mind foreplay,a good kiss gets me on the mood.I like giving oral sex,but I really don't mind receiving,because I love vaginal and anal sex,and come quickly and multiple times.I'm very easy to please.I was very worried this month,when we had no sex for 16 days.I'm very affecionate,always with my hand all over him ,caresing,cuddling,always well grommed,sexy lingerie.
I think  he has low libido..For him is just natural not have sex so often.For him I'm the oversexed.I never seen a man refuse sex.I always thought it was normal for the men to have a higher sex drive than a women...Are some men like this,they dont miss sex?What can I do to change this?Help!
Thanks

[OTuathal]

you are in your sexual prime. that means you want it all the time. Men go through this in their late teens--explains a lot about teenage boys.  Pressuring a partner always has the adverse effect. talk openly about it instead. and accept that sometimes you just might need some alone time.

[Blue08]

Hi
I like to ask you that how many time yu get orgasm during sex.

[Razielz]

What you said, well not many men do refuse sex (im one of the few) as far as I know. But my biggest suggestion would be to respect his wishes if he doesnt wish to have sex, the worst thing you can do is try to force him. Kissing and cuddling would be a good thing to do, possibly set the mood after a nice night or day? Or as others have said, dont play hard to get. let him come to you and beg for you! (just a thought haha) but I wish you luck in your quest! hope everything turns out good for you in the end.

-Razielz

[jml1986]

Well I hate to say it but no cute nighty is going to do it if he is not as sexually active as you are. I know because I have tried it, and it hasn't worked yet. I have always need sex more then my husband. The only they you can do is try working on it together.

[Salyna]

This is actually quite normal.  The ages of the two of you tells me that you are in your prime and he is not.  That's it in a nutshell.  Maybe instead of being so available, which is sometimes unattractive to men, use reverse psychology. Don't play hard to get . . or play any games for that matter.  I'm just saying find some good books about this and maybe use a different approach. Good luck!