one does not need to steal panties or bras. Any department store (MAcy's, Sears, and others are more then willing to sell them to you. Even had a sales clerk (female) find to size bra I was looking for. A sale is a sale
I don't think so..depends on how far you go with it (I'm assuming your a male)..there are many men who are "cross dressers" and enjoy wearing women's clothing and I don't think there is anything mentally or physically wrong with that, or so I've read..it's not
my thing, of course..
however...there are some men for whom "panties" become an obsession and in turn their desire for panties turns to the desire to "steal" those panties from women, either by breaking into their homes or through physical force..I know I'm taking this a bit far but it does happen.
examine your motives...cross dressing does not make you gay...there are many, many marriages where the wife has accepted the cross dressing activity..do you wear any other articles of women's clothing?
I don't know how old you are, but you may wish to discuss with a counselor just to examine the motivation...Heck, I enjoyed the feeling of silk women's panties at one time (in my late teens) and ultimately settled for silk boxers which took care of that!
Jim