what to do

[anonymous449]

im really scared i had sex for the first time two nights ago and since i have been really sore and bleeding quite heavily
ive read other questions similar they all say the same thing that its normal to bleed after the first time
and im not sure if its my period because i knew i was due on sometime within the next week or so or something is really wrong and i need some proper answers and i cant talk to my parents
is this normal

[anonymous449]

thanks for the advice i will play it out for now and see if it is my menstrual period if it worsens ill see a doctor feel much better now :D xxxxxxxxx

[medicmommy]

When you say bleeding heavily, how much? Are you soaking pads through? If so, how often do you need to change them? Is it heavier than your period bleeding? Being sore is normal, bleeding more than a couple pantiliners a day is not unless you are on your period. If it is as heavy as period bleeding, it may be your period, but if you begin to feel lightheaded, dizzy, constantly thirsty, or develop a fever (chills, hot flushes) or pain you need to see a Dr as soon as possible. Rarely, cervical or vaginal wall tears occur during sex, but these do not usually bleed heavily more than a few hours. If you do need to see a Dr., just tell your folks you think something is wrong but you don't know what. As a Mom myself, I would so much rather my daughter tells me if she needs help (even if she didn't tell me the whole story) than take the risk of endangering her life over fear of my disappointment or anger. As a parent, I would get over being upset over my daughter having her first time, but I would never get over it if she died because she feared my reaction and didn't tell me...You are nearly an adult and you are old enough to make your own decisions and accept the responsibility for your actions. If you choose, you can just tell the Dr what has happened. This will be confidential between he and you. I hope this helps...(((((((((HUGZ)))))))) ~MM

[iam1butterfly]

Yes... soreness and bleeding is to be expected. The degree, however, varies. My  soreness (which was a sort of burning soreness) lasted about a week after the first time that I had intercourse... and was mostly felt when I was in the sitting position. And, it seemed to me that I had more spotting than outright bleeding... with that spotting occurring after each of the first several attempts at intercourse.

Some women report profuse bleeding and extreme soreness. Others report less. Again, no two women are exactly alike. And, it's quite possible that all of this could be coinciding with your menstrual period, which might make the bleeding seem excessive. I would wait out the time that it usually takes for your period to last to see if anything is amiss... if it seems like you're having a menstrual period, then you probably are. If you're experiencing excessive bleeding and pain that is beyond the typical menstrual symptoms; then, it could be a medical issue. But, from personal experience... I wouldn't worry about it.