why do men get all the enjoyment

[gwen2002]

Does it make any other women mad that the man can get*** every time u have sex.I ask my friends do u enjoy sex? They all say different,some say yes,kinda,no,and its the best thing in the world.Me I sometimes do but to me the guy has nothing to do with me having one,unless there finger is down there.Take porn and the girl is screaming and moaning is that not fake?I never ever had just a penis inside me that made me orgasm.I am 32 and its only going to happen when the sex toys are in bed with us or he knows to use his hands? is this weird that a penis inside me does nothing for me?

[mkh9]

I'll answer. It depends on the position your in for me. That doesn't work for all positions.
mkh9

[Michele_Speri]

I never came from a man's penis inside me until I was 24 years old. Since then, I've learned is less how aggressive he is, or whether he has a large penis (though I'd be lying if I said those things didn't make ANY difference.)

Instead, it's much more about trust, and being able to feel natural surrendering to the the man we love as a lady. It was less being ****** hard by a man, than it was completely surrendering to him as his sex kitten.

[Michele_Speri]

That's EXACTLY what I did. Every girl should try it because it worked wonders for me!

[ouch_evilness]

I am 40 years old, this is my own rationalization of female orgasm.  There is no magic pill for us ladies as viagra for the men because us woman climax thru intercourse with a combination of physical and what I've found to be more important:  our Mental frame of mind, when we're truly in love our minds allow us to relax and enjoy our partners.

[Sophiar1]

What's your question.  Huh?

[RockRose]

gwen,  I ask this every time this question comes up,  about having an orgasm during sex,  and no one has EVER answered me.  NO ONE.  I think I've brought this up like,  25 times both in person and online.  No one answers.

So,  Here's the deal.  Your clitoris is right above your vagina.  While you are having sex,  move your hips to make him hit your clitoris.  While he's moving,  move yourself where he's hitting the place where you can orgasm.  And tell him to go slow,  or go gentle, or hit hard.

I don't get it why women who can have orgasms through other stimulation can't do it while they're having plain old sex - will you be the first to answer?

Thanks!

[devid]

The foreplay before going to intercourse is very important. Your intrest in that is also essential. Your partner can help alot inthis. He can findout the places and pastures which you like most. Tongue stimulation to clitoris, fingureing  your vegina with lubricant, keeping you up on him or rear entry of penis may be helpful. Sometimes he ask you to do what gents do and you thrust  your vegina to his penis from upward.You should also engage yourslf in reading or seeing sexual literature or films few hours before going for copulation. You and your partner research can give better result. Even use of artificial stimulation is also normal.

[njw753]

Somewhere around 70% of women do not orgasm by intercourse alone.  Clitoral stimulation is often necessary for us to be able to.  And it is perfectly normal and ok to use hands or vibrators to aid in orgasm.

[lynne169]

just make him work harder to get you yours, and dont let him have his until after

[gwen2002]

Well thats just not fair.I always thought there was something wrong with me.So really then sex is just for men.

[lynne169]

so i am 20 and have never experienced the big O, i asked around for advice and found that most people said that they hardley ever get theirs from just intercourse alone... so to answer your question, no i dont think its weird.