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will he find out that i m no longer a virgin?

I m going to get married in November.. the problem is that its an arranged marriage… I just lost my virginity in feb nd have been sexually active with my boyfriend about 10-11 times… I m scared that my husband will find out that I m no longer a virgin when I do it with him…. Is this true?? Are there any chances of him discovering that Im not a virgin??????  What should I do?? Please help
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there's no proof that you're not a virgin, i wish the best of luck to you.  if you still love your ex, is there any way you can talk to your parents about not having an arranged marriage?  i mean, maybe if they know your ex that you love...maybe they will like him too?  I don't know how the whole arranged marriage goes about talking to your parents about all of that.  If your parents are open minded about stuff like that I would suggest talking to them about it if you don't want to marry someone you really don't know.
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No there is no proof.
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well we have been 2gether for a year and a half… nd juss recently broke up… To make matters worse I just came to know that my rents have decided that I should get married of their choice. to follow the family tradition, I have to.. despite the fact that I still love my ex…. Therefore I broke up with him to make my parents happy…. N E WAYS how can a guy not find out if a girl is not a virgin????????? Is there n e proof??????
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To be honest with you I don't believe he will know that you're not a virgin.  Why do you have a boyfriend if you're supposed to get married in November?
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Not to cast judgment or anything, but... if you're so concerned about your virginity, why are you having sex with one man and preparing to marry another man in November?
I understand that it's an arranged marriage and all. But, this is a deception that I don't think your future husband will appreciate, if he finds out.
And, who's to say that he won't be able to tell!  
If you're serious about concealing your sexual experience; you would do best by stop having sex with others, now.
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there is really no way for a man to know for sure if you are a virgin or not
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nd last piece of information I forgot 2 mention… last time we had sex was a few days ago… more like Saturday… we have engaged in it for the past 4 months nd did it 10-11 times….
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