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Sexuality & Relationships (Expert Forum)
About to get merriage
Answered by
Pepper Schwartz, Ph.D. - Sexuality, family, Sexual Identity
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About to get merriage
by erharshit, Jul 02, 2007 12:00AM
Dear Doctor
i am in sex relationship with my girlfrnd from almost 2 years.We are not using the Condoms even. Now because of several personal reasons this can not be converted in a merriage life.
I am about to get merry an another girl in few months time.After this I will never go in sex relation with my previous girl frnd.
What should be safe period that I should mentain for sex with my wife after merriage so that there would not be any chance of HIV.
Thanks
i am in sex relationship with my girlfrnd from almost 2 years.We are not using the Condoms even. Now because of several personal reasons this can not be converted in a merriage life.
I am about to get merry an another girl in few months time.After this I will never go in sex relation with my previous girl frnd.
What should be safe period that I should mentain for sex with my wife after merriage so that there would not be any chance of HIV.
Thanks
Doctor's Answer
by Pepper Schwartz, Ph.D., Jul 05, 2007 12:00AM
, Jul 05, 2007 12:00AMThere is no specific time. Go to a doctor and get a blood test. The doctor can tell you if there is any antibodies in your blood that show exposure to a disease, for example, hiv, herpes etc. If there is no trace of you having had the diseases and the doctor says you do not have them now- THEN you are safe ( or as safe as science can pronounce at this time)
To protect your new wife- you really MUST go to a doctor and get these tests. Herpes for example, if there, can remain in your system for a lifetime-- so there is no amount of time that makes it safe for your wife. What will make it safe- is a real examination and a clean bill of health from a reputable doctor who examines you carefully.
Member Comments (2)
by alpaca, Jul 02, 2007 12:00AM
Ignoring the weirdness here, just get tested. No doubt you are fine, but that would be the way to know for sure.
