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Sexuality & Relationships (Expert Forum)
Is this normal?
Answered by
Janice M Epp, PhD - Female sexual issues, Adolescent sexuality, Male sexual issues
Private Practice
Palo Alto - CA
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Is this normal?
by sskoo, Sep 20, 2009 03:17PM
My husband still has an erect penis after ejaculation. We are both in our fifties and have been married just over a year. We were both widowed and I had only had sex during this time with a couple men I dated. I know my previous husband didn't and I don't recall if anyone else did. I'm questioning if he is trying to make me feel good by faking an orgasm or is this normal for some men?
Doctor's Answer
by Janice M Epp, PhD, Sep 25, 2009 05:39PM
, Sep 25, 2009 05:39PMTo: sskoo
Hi.
When it comes to sex, there's no such thing as "normal." How could your partner "fake" an orgasm? You'd know if he wasn't ejaculating, wouldn't you?
Every man is different. Some men's erections go down immediately after ejaculation, and some within a few second, while others stick around for more fun. Relax and stop worrying and judging your partner. These are the enemies of good sex. Dr. J
When it comes to sex, there's no such thing as "normal." How could your partner "fake" an orgasm? You'd know if he wasn't ejaculating, wouldn't you?
Every man is different. Some men's erections go down immediately after ejaculation, and some within a few second, while others stick around for more fun. Relax and stop worrying and judging your partner. These are the enemies of good sex. Dr. J
Member Comments (3)
by gagootza, Oct 05, 2009 06:59PM
To: sskoor
don't know how a man can fake an orgasm .did anything come out .is he taking any erectile disfunction pills like viagra or c alis.that would explain the erection after orgasm
by Georgina92, Oct 15, 2009 04:14AM
To: sskoo
My boyfriend has the same thing, it isn't a faked orgasm as he ejaculates. As the doc says, he's just sticking around for more fun so stop worrying and enjoy!
