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im away from my bf in school and when i get horny i like to masturbate. to masturbate i read dirty stories and i rub my clit and i orgasim... but my first question is can i *** just by rubbing my clit? and whats the difference between getting wet and cumming?
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Hi Ashley:

I'm so glad you asked about orgasms and your sexuality because the more knowledge you have, the happier your sex life will be.

When you begin to lubricate--or get wet--it simply means you're aroused.

Most of us learn about women’s orgasms from movies, TV and books. You know: the perfect, romantic, spontaneous, simultaneous, earth-moving Big O. We’re supposed to orgasm from 2 minutes of penis-vagina sex in the missionary position in the dark with a partner who is clueless. So we put this pressure on ourselves and are mostly disappointed when it doesn’t happen.

Here’s the reality: In women, the clitoris must be stimulated—either directly or indirectly—in order for orgasm to happen. The clitoris is our primary sex organ--not the vagina--and consists of the glans (or head), the hood which covers the glans, and the shaft. Most women do not orgasm from penis-vagina sex alone, so please don't put pressure on yourself to do so.

For most women, orgasm results from a constant circular motion around the shaft and glans. Also important to know is that once a woman’s orgasm begins, if the stimulation is removed, the orgasm will end. Orgasm is characterized by a series of pleasurable, involuntary contractions in and around the vulva (clitoris, vagina and inner/outer lips). Most women have between 5 and 8 contractions per orgasm.

I highly recommend the book, "For Yourself: The Fulfillment of Female Sexuality," by Lonnie Barbach. It's widely available in paperback, and is a step-by-step program for learning about your own sexual response. In addition, it contains lots of sharing by women about their own personal journeys of sexual self-discovery. I think it will help you immensely. Best of luck to you. Dr. J
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yes you can have an orgasm just rubbing your clit. actually clitoral stimulation usually produces the best orgasm

and getting wet means your vagina is naturally producing "lubricant". (the clear sticky stuff that comes out of your vagina when you are horny or masterbating)

cumming usually means having an actual orgasm orgasm.

so like if somone says "im so wet" it means they are just horny, and if someone says "im cumming" it means they are actually having an orgasm


also i dont want to confuse you but the lubricant that your vagina naturally produces can be called c  um
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