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Sexuality & Relationships (Expert Forum)
complete hystorectomy, with deep scarring after sevweal mos. to make my EX feel like he was with a 16 yr old. Now my husband and I have had NO penetration for at least 10 yes. If we try he says it feels lie he's hitting bone, and I bleed for 3-5 days
Answered by
Janice M Epp, PhD - Female sexual issues, Adolescent sexuality, Male sexual issues
Private Practice
Palo Alto - CA
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complete hystorectomy, with deep scarring after sevweal mos. to make my EX feel like he was with a 16 yr old. Now my husband and I have had NO penetration for at least 10 yes. If we try he says it feels lie he's hitting bone, and I bleed for 3-5 days
by honeydogg, Jul 04, 2009 02:15PM
What could be the reason that we can't have any penetration sex? If we try I bleed for apx 4-5 days. (more like spotting, but I hurt! so bad!) Oral sex is okay, but I even cramp after that. I must admit that I haven't seen a gyn in apx 10 years. I am so afraid they will want me to have surgery! If you could give me any advice, and I have a feeling you will tell me to get in to see a gyn.
Doctor's Answer
by Janice M Epp, PhD, Jul 05, 2009 03:31PM
, Jul 05, 2009 03:31PMTo: honeydogg
You are your own worst enemy. I'm completely baffled about your medical history, because I don't understand your references; however, I can't give you any advice--and neither can anyone else.
You MUST see a gynecologist. And the good news is that it's not necessarily true that surgery is indicated. In fact, it may be something quite simple and easy to treat. You're scaring yourself for nothing. If your sexuality is important to you as well as your relationship, you'll get this taken care of. See a gynecologist who specializes in pain issues--and do it now. Best of luck to you. Dr. J
You MUST see a gynecologist. And the good news is that it's not necessarily true that surgery is indicated. In fact, it may be something quite simple and easy to treat. You're scaring yourself for nothing. If your sexuality is important to you as well as your relationship, you'll get this taken care of. See a gynecologist who specializes in pain issues--and do it now. Best of luck to you. Dr. J
