im the only case of this that ive heard of

[boa09]

im 18 years of age, circumsized but still very sexually active.
however i cannot reach orgasm due to masturbation, hand jobs, or blowjobs (but they still feel amazing).
otherwise however i perform just fine sexually

[Janice M Epp, PhD]

Did you have a question?

It sounds like you're under the impression that circumcision affects your ability to be sexually active? There are no scientific data to support this. Dr. J

[boa09]

my question is
is this unhealthy?
could there be something wrong?
how can i learn to masturbate?

[Janice M Epp, PhD]

Hello.

You haven't given me enough information. You say you're "sexually active"; however, I don't know what you mean by this, nor what you mean by "I perform just fine sexually." I'm going to take stab at and guess that you're referring to penis-vagina sex with a partner. So you can have orgasms with p-v sex, but not with self-pleasuring or other forms of stimulation. Why is this a problem for you? Are you happy, or are you trying to fit into some stereotype of what you think you "should" be?

Perhaps self-pleasuring isn't comfortable for you. After all, many people receive negative messages about touching themselves. And perhaps the intimacy of oral sex is also problematic? I don't know the answers--only you do.

Think about whether you get anxious being sexual in any other way besides p-v and what you think contributes to that. This will help you to further understand yourself. Dr. J

[gagootza]

i think you need to find the women thats right for you,someone you can share you deepest inner emotions with,someone who lves you and you love her in return.then you might get the orgasms and the feeling of fullfillment just by having her in your arms and in your life.hope you find her or she finds you.sex isn't always the act but the sincere emotions that go with it.when you find that then you'l have it all.good luck and i hope i was of some help to you