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is this normal??

hi, im 22 and everytime i have sexeven if i climaxed i always want more so i recently brought a vibrator after several friend's told me that it was a great idea. i never wanted to use one because of the fear that sex would never be the same afterwards. well i had a friend over and after we done our thing and he left i still wanted more so i used the vibrator. it was so intense and made me wonder if i actually had ever even had an orgasm from sex after experiencing what i just experienced. and also i havent had sex since then and more just relied on the vibrator and i am worried i may be getting a bit addicted to it :S..what should i do
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523042 tn?1212177895
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Hello

Unfortunately, you'll probably receive lots of ignorant comments/advice regarding your question. However, I deal only in facts.

You can't get "addicted" to activities. I think you're worried that you will become dependent on vibrators for intense orgasms. Yes, vibrators can provide intense, quick orgasms. And these can be fun and satisfying. However, orgasms from other kinds of stimulation can be satisfying as well--just different.

Think about it: There are times when you might want a fast, easy meal, and other times you might want to linger over a candlelit dinner with someone wonderful. Sex can be like that too: Quickies and long, lingering encounters. Each may be satisfying at different times.

Rather than worrying about vibrators, I suggest you ask yourself whether sexual encounters with your current partners are giving you what you need. If not, you might want to explore what's missing. Dr. J
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I understand your situation. Women can enjoy orgasm after orgasm and men can't. Once they blow, they need time and rest.

If you are finding alternate, then try threesome- you and 2 guys. you can also ask your guy to finger you or can perform oral sex and give you multiple orgasms.

however, you must not get dependant on vibrators. a real girl needs a real guy's **** and not rubber or plastic.. you can use vibrators occassionally and find more guys or as your bf to **** you more often..
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