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is this normal?
Hey everyone. So i'm a male, and i've been having sex with my gf for a while now. i was a virgin before, and the first couple times it was horrible. but after a while, i was able to stay hard and now i am able to ejaculate from sex. about a week ago, the sex felt really good, but now, when i have sex with her, i don't feel any pleasure until i ejaculate. what's my problem here? There has to be something i can do about it! thanks in advance for the help!
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Well, you must be feeling some pleasure, otherwise, what would make you ejaculate? So what do you mean by 'pleasure'--is it just not as intense when you are inside of her than when you ejaculate? Or is there something different about the actual intercourse- is she less lubricated? Are you less emotionally attached to her?
You need to talk to each other and express your desires and feelings? See if there are other positions that feel better or better times of day when you are both really turned on. Go to a book store and get a good book to read together... you are still new at this and there is lots to learn! Learn it together- whether trying out new kinds of lubrication together or doing more foreplay ( such as oral sex ) to get more in the pleasure mode.
yal can try new things or bring some toys in the relationship.they have some for men and couples.do yal have sex alot?/if so wait about a week and then have sex.it will be more exciting instead of everyday or every other day.hopefully this will help some.good luck
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