Only you know the answers to your questions, because you know the history of your relationship and also your husband's personality, issues, etc. Honesty is usually the best policy, so admitting you made a mistake and sharing how much you love him is a good first step. It would also be helpful to know why he's decided to reconcile with you at this time. Realize that his motivation may be different than yours. Best of luck to you. Dr. J
Have you told him how you feel? That would be a good start.