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what is the most unpainful way to loose my virginity?
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Hello
You don't say whether you're a woman or man, but I'm going to assume you're a woman and answer you accordingly.
I'm also assuming you've made the decision to have penis-vagina sex, and that you're concerned that it may cause pain. The #1 reason why women experience pain during their first p-v experience is because they are insufficiently aroused and lubricated. Frequently, women follow the lead of their partner, and when he's ready for p-v, they go along. This is a huge mistake. You should NEVER have p-v until you're ready. You need to be very turned on and very wet.
I suggest you go very slowly and begin with your partner's finger to see how that feels. When it feels very good, ask him to try a bigger finger. In other words, work up to a penis. And when you're ready for p-v, try lying side by side and having him enter you just a bit at a time. Go very slow. And stop if it hurts too much. You can go slowly, taking a little more of the penis each time. Never just let him jump on top of you and shove it in. Ouch! Best of luck to you. Dr. J
You don't say whether you're a woman or man, but I'm going to assume you're a woman and answer you accordingly.
I'm also assuming you've made the decision to have penis-vagina sex, and that you're concerned that it may cause pain. The #1 reason why women experience pain during their first p-v experience is because they are insufficiently aroused and lubricated. Frequently, women follow the lead of their partner, and when he's ready for p-v, they go along. This is a huge mistake. You should NEVER have p-v until you're ready. You need to be very turned on and very wet.
I suggest you go very slowly and begin with your partner's finger to see how that feels. When it feels very good, ask him to try a bigger finger. In other words, work up to a penis. And when you're ready for p-v, try lying side by side and having him enter you just a bit at a time. Go very slow. And stop if it hurts too much. You can go slowly, taking a little more of the penis each time. Never just let him jump on top of you and shove it in. Ouch! Best of luck to you. Dr. J
Hi, why the rush to loose your virginity, without trying to sound to old fashioned why not wait until you ready and not just wanting to loose it like a bad toothache.
thanks alot for the advice!!! i am a girl lol. ima try your suggestion tonight:)
i am ready, me and my fiance have been together for two years. hes been patient so now i wanna give my whole self to him. we have tried it just hurt ALOT.
Your man must make sure your vargina is wet by licking u after that he can insert his penis slowly and play slowly u will enjoy.
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