If you have no family you can ask for help, you have to make your own decision, knowing that you will be by yourself in this and it will mean 24/7 care of another person at least until that child is a teenager, peppered by legal fights with the birth father over child support. If you're up for that, you do not need to listen to the sperm donor, certainly not about an abortion. (You do not need to anyway even if you also did not want the child ... adoption is a perfectly lovely solution at times like that.) I am sorry that you are not closer to your family, because that is where most single moms do turn. Any close friends, or good community, or church?
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