Desperate situation after stroke, please help

[mehraban]

My mom ( 61 years old )had a stroke 8 days ago. She is still in ICU and suffering from her sad situation. The stroke affected on her left arm and leg. Fortunately, she is completely aware of everything . However the most painful part is the swallowing problem. She is still get food through the nose tubs, so her mouth and tongue are very dry. Her extremely dry mouth and not able to drink is driving her nuts and not sure what to do to help her. Her doctors don’t tell us how many days more she has to suffer this way. Is there anyone has or had the same situation or has any idea to help us?  

[bigfoot1009]

My dad's stroke left him paralyzed on his right side and his isn't able to speak.  He has fought therapy at times.  I doubt it is depression, maybe just things trying to reconnect in her brain.  This has been the most frustrating experience in my life.  It is amazing how far my dad has come in the past 12 weeks, but very depressing compared to where he was the day before the stroke.  Give things time and you will be amazed when you look back at the progress she will make.

[mehraban]

Thanks for your response.
My mom is getting back her swallowing ability. Now the big problem we face is that she acts like a child,..for example she says things over and over . She doesn't care about her situation(left side paralyzed), so doesn't coaporate with physiotherapist. I am not sure if it is because of depression or something els. Did you ever had the same experience?

[bigfoot1009]

My father had a stroke in June and the nurses gave him a sponge that they rubbed around in his mouth and on his teeth to give him moisture.  The swallowing problem will get better with therapy.  Best of luck.