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Hemorrhagic Stroke/Recovery Times OK?
My sister-in-law had a hemorrhagic stroke with a intracerebral hemorrhage. This was on May 18th. They have done a Ventriculostomy. The gas man found her in the driveway. We figure it had been somewhere between 20-35 mins. before she was found. They have her in a medically induced coma where they say she will stay for the next 3-4 weeks. Is this normal? Also, they did a cat scan on the 18th, and 19th and we were told the bleeding had stopped. They are doing another one tomorrow, and they are now talking about putting a shunt in. Once again is this normal? They say if she survives (her chances are 50/50, she is still in critical/stable condition) she will have slurred speech, minimal movement of her right arm, and a limp with her right leg. Should they be able to tell this while she is in the coma? She was concious after they flipped her over in the driveway and upon arrival at the hospital which is approx. 40 miles away.We look forward to your response. Thank you,

Lost without her hanging with us!

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It's 4 weeks to the day after my sister had her stroke.  She has been in the acute care facility for a week.  They have started the physical therapy.  She is opening her eyes, she wiggles her toes for us and she has quite a firm grasp in her right hand. :)   Most of the time she still sleeps.  But tonite we caught her in an amazing mood.  We always try to make her laugh.  This time we must have been extra humerous because she had the biggest jack o' lantern grin I have ever seen!  It made us feel great because we know she understands us and knows who we are for sure.  She can't talk (trach tube) and is still being fed via the stomache tube.  But that grin, oh man!  I almost cried it made me so happy!

sailorswife, tommahwk and everyone else - Please let me know how things are going.  It's so hard to find encouragement these days.
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Pandorasue ~ I am very sorry to hear about your boyfriend.  I'm sure we all grieve with you, because all of us came so close to walking in your shoes.  We wish you wisdom and strength, as you try to live a life that would make him proud of you.

Lahinva ~ My husband is improving, but very slowly.  The nursing home he moved to is not as focused as the acute care facility was on moving him forward.  He still has a plugged trach and is on a feeding tube.  I am very worried that he will slide backward.  At the acute care facility, he was re-learning to swallow, which he must do before he can eat without the feeding tube, and before the hole in his throat can be closed.  At the nursing home, swallowing practice has been virtually discontinued.  I keep having to pressure the staff every day to make sure he receives occupational and physical therapy and is allowed to sit up in a chair for at least two hours.  His short-term memory and also his level of awareness are variable.  Sometimes he forgets what I have told him.  Other times, when I tell him something a second time, he says, "I know.  You already told me that."  Sometimes he can comprehend a rather involved subject.  Other times, he either goes completely blank or has a kind of panic attack and becomes very agitated.  Hearing what you say about therapy for your father makes me wonder: are these facilities looking for any excuse they can find to do as little therapy as possible?  Is your father in a nursing home?  Can you speak with the Director of the facility, or perhaps with his doctor about your concerns?  It sounds like he was discharged from therapy once before.  What about reaching out to some sort of advocate, like the state board that oversees nursing homes, or an attorney?  I myself am going to try to get action and adequate therapy for a while longer.  If that fails, I will look into bringing my husband home and having therapists of my own choosing come to the house.  At least that way, I would be able to sleep at night, instead of lying awake wondering how my husband is being treated during the night.

NmcP ~ I am so happy that your sister is coming along well.  If she can smile, you are very fortunate.  My husband can only accomplish a slight lift of the right corner of his mouth.  Cherish the days when your sister makes progress, and hold onto them when she has difficult days.  This recovery process is a long series of ups and down.  Yesterday, my husband seemed to understand a complicated article I read him about "dihedral" in model airplane wings.  He was very alert and talkative.  This evening, I could hardly get him to respond to me at all.  The nurses tell me that after stroke patients take in lots of new information, they need to sort of "reboot" and assimilate it all.  You will probably see your sister taking two or three steps forward, then one step backward.  Don't worry.  Gradually, she will get better and better.  All my best wishes!
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Thank you so much for the encouragement!  Yesterday we got her to give us a thumbs up.  Later in the evening (we visit in shifts), my mom told her a friend was sick and asked my sister if she wanted to sign a card.  She did a slight nod and raised her hand to hold the pen.  My mom guided her hand to write her name.  It is sorta legible and granted my mom did the work, but what a HUGE step for her!  She opens her eyes a lot, but we don't really know if she can see us or not.  But you are so right!  Every little tiny step is celebrated as it is a step forward.  We hang on to those dearly as there are those days when she isn't quite as "enthusiastic".
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THanks for all your thoughts.  We have spoken with the facility this past week.  They reevaluated my dad for therapy on Friday so we are now waiting to hear from the insurance company as to whether or not he qualifies for more therapy.  Also, tomorrow he is going for an evaluation at an acute rehab  facility to see if he can now handle that level of rehab.  It is such a slow process.  Has your husband gotten any movement back?  Is he able to stand at all?  My dad is now able to move his arm and leg some, but has no strength in his leg at all.

Please continue to keep me posted on your husbands progress... It's nice to hear from other people as to what works and what doesn't.

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It has been incredible to read this thread.  I feel for everyone who has been going through this with their loved ones, and the survivor stories are amazing.  It has really helped me to read the stories and I send the best of wishes for everyone in recovery.  It puts my friend's experience in perspective and I see we have a lot to be thankful for.

My friend, age 44, had a hemorrhagic stroke on July 29.  She was helicoptered to a major hospital and had a craniotomy on July 31 to clip the aneurysm, but they were unable to get a clot that was too deep in the brain.  They are still monitoring the clot.

She did not open her eyes much for a week or more.  She was breathing on her own in a few days and was speaking clearly but slept all the time.  The stroke was on her right side so her left is impaired. She had swallowing issues so had a feeding tube installed, but she just got that taken out last week!

She was moved from neuro-ICU to a neuro unit and now is at an acute care rehab hospital.  She has gotten more and more aware of her situation.  She is making progress, but it is far slower than she wants.  She is still on choking precautions but has been upgraded to having her food cut small (first it was ground and then chopped, now cut).  

She has started to move her left leg.  She goes to physical and occupational therapy several times a day.   She still complains of head pain and her eyesight is not good yet, but she is opening her right eye more (her left eye which is more impaired is easier to open for some reason).  She wears a patch to try to train the eye to open.  She has double vision sometimes and says her depth perception and peripheral vision is bad.

I am most worried for her psychological state at this time.  She is not married and was actually with a fairly new boyfriend (thank goodness he was with her or she may have passed away) at the time of the brain bleed.  She has so many friends who have gathered around her, yet every time I see her I fear she is getting more and more depressed.  Her family (who she is not very close to) is aware of her depression as is the hospital.  Now she has to be moved to a subacute facility that will have less intense therapy, but I guess the insurance feels she is plateauing for the more aggressive place.  

What I have read here reconfirms how important the next place will be.  Thankfully she has very loving friends who are visiting and interviewing at all the options under her insurance plan.

Sometimes she speaks very lucidly about things and other times she seems to ask questions that are off the wall.  I guess it just takes your brain a long time to reshuffle the deck and figure out what the heck is going on.

Sailorswife--I think of my Mom when I read your posts.  My mother is with her soulmate, my father, since they married in 1950.  I hope that she would show the courage and strength you have if anything happened to my Dad like this.  Bless you and your husband.
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Hello all. My dad of 85 year old just celebrated 60 years marriage with my mom, on Aug.6th and on Aug 15 while getting ready to go to a senior club meeting,it happen while he was taking a bath. It took an 1 1/2 hours or more to get him to the hospital. Cause he didn't want to go and mom listened, but my sisters boys picked him up out of the tub and put him in the car and off they went. My dad is 240 pounds, still a fireman, bowls 2 times a week, 2 senior clubs, Atantic City trip manager, I just could go on. Still good vision, drives, goes out to eat everyother night. But on Aug 15 everything changed. The CAT scan told us, it was the worst stroke a person could get. We where all in shock. The Brain doctor came in said nothing good. But this family has a lot of faith. SO- He got a room in the hospital at 10pm arrived to the ER at 11:30 am. They gave him very good care, the ICU he stayed in for 4 weeks. His right doesn't move, they put a clear jell in his eyes to keep from drying,which made him not want to open up his eyes, so look for shine around his eyes, looks like vasoline, tube down his nose to keep the food from going into his lungs which later turned into a feeding tube. He also was intabated (tube to his lungs, so food or vomit stayed out. He was breathing on his own, but still had him all hooked up. For 2 weeks they put him into a coma so the bleeding would stop, found out that the bleed was in the middle of his head, behind the nose. The fluid build up and blood was the size of a soft ball. They said his vien just broke open. So everyday we all would be there, massageing his arms and legs, with lotion, curel the $8.00 green bottle. It's worth it. For 2 weeks we massage and we still are, the therephist told us that if we didn't do that his arm would of curled up and his hand would close shut and you wouldn't be able to straighten it, that could only be in my dad case. They put a screen in a vien,which is called an unbrella to stop blood clots, cause when the heart doesn't work right it make blood clots and goes to the brain, so we did that to help him, every decision we make as a family so no one can point the finger at any one. I read all your storys and so many of the same things is going on with my dad. In the ICU room they gave him an G-tube for food cause they said if we did that he wouldn't have so much flam in his throat, they said his lungs are full and he is not strong enough to cough it up himself and the G-tube in his stomach instead of the nose will help him, so we agreed, then the next day they rush to us when we got there and they need to do a trak cause there is to much flam. So we agreed again,3 days later they moved him down stairs which everyone wished us well and said it was a step up. OOOOOOOOOO by the way to get extra good help, bring in the cake 2 times a week for the staff,all 3 shifts, they open up more and tell you more on whats going on.But the floor they put my dad was a cancer wing, he was't touch for 2 1/2 days, then we moved him to the only Care one in Perth Amboy hospital, any of you from NEW JERSEY???? Cause now we are looking for an Acute CAre Facility, Can anyone help me, do you know a good one. This place that dad is in is the step before a rehab. Cause they need to get the trak out, which my dad has not tried to talk, his throat is like chopped liver, the pain of all the times they had to put the sucking tube down his throat. They even tied down his good arm when we wheren't there, cause he was scratching his head with his good hand and pulled the feeding tube out of his nose. He's a very gental man, good man. I'm sorry for writing so much, but its 6 weeks. Just wanted to share with you some things, traks need moist air on them, and the one that was on my dad was cold air and he foze all the time yesterday the respitory girl said he was taken off the oxyen, I said cause he's cold, so she put a heating devise on it, where the bottle of water is, looks like a can of tuna on top. So if anyone out there is freezening from that , they do have heater for the water. My dad has lost 40 pound cause the only give him 40 cal.an hour of food. If you have a G-tube and the number on the machine is 40 or 60 or 80 ask the nurse how much are they eating,My dad is on 40, which is only 900 cal. a day which my dad is used to eating 3000 a day, now I know when it firstwas put in it takes a few day to watch for problem, but 2 weeks, so one of the big shot doctors came in on a weekend and was looking at my dad and I told him I have some goal today, and he said it was the weekend and his ear don't work, so I just laughed and said I will talk louder for you so you can hear me, hahahahaha and we laughed and come to find out he was the head guy who runs the hospital, what luck , so I asked him to give my dad more food. and he gave him 20 more and when I go in tomorrow I will ask for 20 more. So don't be afraid to question all who enter the room what are they doing and what is it for, cause I've learn so much, and I ask alot of question and I ask to watch, I now help the nurses, buy holding my dads hand, and I also tell my dad everything that they are going to do. I tell him to open his eyes and I look in, talk loud, and explain and things go good. we sit with my dad 6 hours a day, my mom can't stay less, its hard after 60 years, I drive 37 mile to get her and then another 10 to the hospital,and back home.Thank God the gas prices are going down. This place is so clean, and do they work on all the pt. only 26 beds, there inside the perth amboy hospital, a great group of well trained people, plus I do bring them cake, I try to get all shifts. Dad has good days that he is awake 6 to 8 hours and days he sleeps all day. They bath him every shift, thats 3 to 4 times a day and rub down with lotion. Its so clean you can see yourself in the floors. This place is the middle step before rehab. but the social worker gave my mom a list of nursing homes with rehab. I don't think any of them are any good, Bayshore ICU told us about JFK in Edison, but that is so far away, we are looking for any other place in Monmouth county new jersey, but if the care is better far away ok that is where he'll go, Just remember everyone, don't give up, talk, feel and spread the love, our touch on them makes all the difference in the world. They can hear us, hear everything that is talked about in front of them. New voices, just remember dont do excerise with there legs when someone is visiting cause they can't tell you that they are imbarassed. and Have everyone talk to them, not around them.  I bring all doctor and nurses to his face to talk to. You see they are still there whether they can respond or not, the doctors told us he would not be able to know us or anything,but he does know us, and answer us with a yes or no shake of the head. My mom even talked norwegian to him and he answer with a nod, and she get her 3 kiss and he moves his lip and neck toward her to do it. I got the family to bring in pictures to cover the wall with and showed him them to see if he knows us, and he does. So get pictures and show them, see if they know who they are, bring ones of them.Look at them and see and remember and you and you alone will see what the doctors and nurses don't. Go to the desk and tell the nurses and doctors, what you see them doing, get it in there report, ask if they are awake at night so if they sleep when your there, its ok, Make your own dairy, and write every day what doctor came in, each cat scan, what they said and each movement, look, etc. Cause all the people who work on you love one doesn't know them the way you do.My goal tomorrow is to get him out of bed and get more food in him, the swallowing test was cancel 5 times cause he is asleep, and they can't wake him, cause he has alway been a heavy sleeper, hahaha So when I get in there tomorrow I hope I have him awake in time for the test, cause my dad loves food. So good night all, Faith and Love and Prayers to all.I hope I can find the time to visit here again. I get 2 days off a week from my dad, my sister and I take turns getting my mom to the hospital. Bye for now
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Thanks so much for your kinds words. Today I picked up my mom late cause I was on the computer all night looking for acute care places. My Dad is just keeping his eyes closed, but moved his good hand a little. The social worker gave my mom a list of homes to check out and pick 3, sub-acute nursing/rehab. My dad has been laying in bed since Aug 15 2006, Saturday I got the doctor to order him out of bed to a chair, but for 2 days just sleeping and opens eyes for a few minutes. Glen our physical therapist. told the social worker that he's not able to go to an acute place yet.Ya know before sat. they where just feeding him 40 cal.an hour, now on sat. I got them to increase it to 60 and today I got it up to 80, which now that is 8 can of drink at 237 cal a can equaling 1896 cal, I'm so excited,because he is getting feed double then last week, and I feel he will get stronger and beat this thing. But also  today was so sad, my dads friend came to visit, and there senior club and Atlantic city trip, and big fire house roast beef diner friends, there lives are around good food. So with sad eyes, he looks at my dad, and my dad's  eyes opened with his friends there, and he ask my dad are you hungry, and my dad looked at him so sadly and shook his head YES a few times up and down, it was so sad. We don't talk about food, but I quickly got up and went to the nurses station to mention it again, and she called the doctor and I got another increase, which now since Friday has doubled. So I have another goal for wed. for another 20. So your right about being on top of them. And as soon as his eyes are open wide and bright, I have the order from the doctor that at anytime I want him out of bed in a chair with me there or my sister, they will do it for me,so I hope tomorrow is that day, and tomorrow if nothing goes wrong, his swallowing test, he wants to eat so bad, but I can only pray, its my mom that is very sad and loosing a little faith that he is't going to get the right care and rehab. I will try to talk about tomorrow with an update. (lahinva how is your dad doing today? How long did it take them to get him ready to sit in a chair and not be sleeping? Tressa999 when did your husband start to show that he could sit in a chair awake? Today my dad complained about pain in his back to I was there when the aids cleaned him up and I found a blue cap that belongs to the lines coming out of his neck. So I thought that was what was bothering him and when everyone left I said to him, now you must feel a lot better, and he said no so I asked "back still hurts"?, ya he nodded, so again I rush to the desk and with in min. pain killer,  But your kind words and stories from yesterday helped my mom cause I told her most of the stories at the diner tonight. Well God Bless to you all and family members bye
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I just want to tell you never to give up.  It has taken us four long months, but after a lot of fighting with insurance companies, we finally got my dad into an acute rehab facility.  He was moved from a LTC/rehab facility on last Thursday.  He is now doing approx. 8 hours a day of rehab.  The ins. company didn't want to send him because he is 80 years old.  But like your dad, he was a very active 80 year old until the day of his stroke.  So far he is doing very well with the rehab.  The doctors at the rehab facility hope to have him walking with a cane when he leaves there.  I hope they are right.  So good luck with your dad and remember never give up hope.....
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You're doing such good things for your dad.  He knows you love him.  It shows.  

I used to live in NJ.  Was once in JFK, but entirely different section and too long ago to be relevant.  My experience with my hasband's stroke (May 28, 2006) has been that each facility has staff of varying quality, so I suspect you'd do best to take the closest good facility to save your strength for the long haul.  You have to watch and listen and ask questions, regardless of whether the facility has a good or bad reputation.  I do feel that if the staff know you care and are watching they give better care than they do to the patient who never has a visitor.  Some of the staff anyway.  

Your dad is so lucky to have children who "rise up and call him blessed".
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My dad is doing better.  In the acute rehab facility he is in therapy from 8:00am til 4:00pm with a few breaks in between.  He seems to be handling it OK.  I think my mom expects to see miracles though.  Yesterday was only his second day there and she expected to see him walk.  He has barely stood in four months, so it is going to take some time.  For about the firsw tow months after the stroke, my dad slept alot.  They did put him in the wheelchair though and he would sleep in there.  We did find that they were giving him vicodin twice a day at the time. Once we had that discontinued, he was much more alert and able to stay awake.  You may want to investigate how much medication they have your dad on.  They seemed to want to keep him drugged and then complain that he was too sleepy to complete the therapy.

Stay involved and question everything they give him......

Good luck and keep me posted....
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Greetings all, what a great week! WEll, remember me telling you I got the doctors to encrease his feeding porition from 40 in the feeding tube to 80 and they did, and I wanted my dad out of bed in a chair. Well they did. He his bright eyed himself awake the whole time he is up. For 6days now he went from 900 calories to 2400 with protien added. He has become stronger, awake and with diffect emotions. Which is all great. Yesterday he was not himself, not looking at us. and I finial asked another question and he just looked out the window with a mad face on. I new he was mad about something, and I finial got it and I asked him if he felt sorry for himself, and he shooked his head YES. So I said that is great dad because that is another spot in your brain that is working. He looked at me with a blank stair, which I told him you can feel sorry for yourself all day, but tomorrow we work to get better ok, and he shook, yes. So today my sister was there with him, they worked on 1 1/2 weight and a 3 pounder weight, the kind that runners use, its foamy to squeeze and a strap on it not to fall out of there hands. So we got it in Walmart. Cheap. So I told my family we will get more food in him and get him up from bed and he will recover. So I told dad that you will walk again, I don't know about your arm. You have to work to get your life back I can only help you I can't do it for you. He listened and today he was happy, played tic tack toe, card (2)games of 21 We do think he can't see as well as before, he is noticeing more about what he can't do. But as a family, with my mom and sis and I, we just have to find the right place to put him in from here and I do see a colorful path ahead. The reason my dad slept all the time, he didn't have enough food, he eats with a G-Tube to his stomach. and Has a trach. We gave him a sugar free lollie pop to suck cause we think the sucking will make his muscle in his neck strong, it has tobe sugar free or the sugar will cause bed sores. So be careful, plus we have to watch to see if he coughs after cause it could be going down tohis lungs, so we wait for a cough and she what color it is. My dad even held it himself and then when got tired of it took it out. So once again, we had a great week, very busy. O yea, we did have one bad day, he pulled out his track and  it must of been out for a few hours cause they couldn't getit back in so they had to put a new one in. I thought that was going to screw everything up, but he only fail the swallow test and now the will work on him for 10 days. So we are also working with the lollie pop and no coughing happened, so I keep all the finger and toe crossed, hahahahahahaha lahinve- you should see if you dad is getting enough food and drink (water very important) Cause food is the most important thing to my dad and when he got more he has started to be more like himself, but slower. Good luck and let me know what things they do for him at this acute place. Thanks me
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My husband was put in a chair about 5 days after his stroke, by a very kind nurse.  He was extremely pleased and more optomistic than before he sat up.  It obviously did him a lot of good to get out of the bed.  Unfortunately, it was difficult to get any nurse but that one to move him to a chair, and she wasn't there again.
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I'm so glad to hear that everyone's loved ones are progressing so well!  My sister had her stroke 7 weeks ago.  She is in an acute care facility.  It's a mixed blessing.  The respiratory therapists and the speech therapists  are great but the nursing staff and the physical therapists suck.  She is supposed to have physical therapy 3 times a week.  She also has braces to strengthen her arms and legs.  They have lost the braces repeatedly and well, it goes downhill from there.  Her colon is working just fine but they don't clean her as often as they could.  Family and friends visit her twice a day.  She is sitting up in a chair now and she passed the swallowing test, but we have no idea when the trach tube may come out or when she can start eating. She is so depressed!

One good thing is she is stable so they want to move her to a rehab facility.  The problem is they want to move her to one that they own (which would be equally crappy).  So mom is fighting tooth and nail to get her into some place where she can thrive.

I can't even begin to address the emotional highs and lows of this.  No one else can begin to understand unless they have gone thru this with a loved one as well.  Now is one of those down times.  We could use all the encouragement we can get!!
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It is wonderful to read about how your family is supporting your father so well.  I am sure this must be so terrible for your mother.  My parents have been married for 56 years and I can just imagine...

I am sure you know your mother needs a lot of support also.

My friend didn't pass the swallow test for quite a while, but eventually did.  She is now in sub-acute and is struggling to come to grips with what has happened to her.  She also loves food and kept talking about Dairy Queen.  When she was moved to the new facility she was actually cleared to ride in a car instead of an ambulance so they stopped at DQ.  She was too dizzy and sick to her stomach to have anything, but maybe another time.  

How is your father's weight?  The reason they didn't want to take out my friend's feeding tube even after she could eat was that she wasn't taking in enough calories.  She finally proved that she could eat enough (friends tried to bring high calorie drinks she liked) and they took the tube out.

Prayers and good thoughts to you for your father!
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My mother had a major hemmroaghic stoke on her right side two weeks ago. my father got her to the hospital fast and emergency surgery drained the pressure on her brain and she survived, tho it was touch and go. She remained in icu in an unconcious to semi-conscious state for eight days before she opened her eyes and lucidly began talking to us. Then she was back and forth between delerium and lucidity for a week. Her hallucigenic nightmares began every evening at the same time and continued throughout the night, causing her sleep deprivation. A nurse told me it was a conditioin called 'icu psychosis' and after researching it, found her symptoms were very similar. For anyone who has a loved one who is experiencing delerium, it is a very frightening thing. Rest assured, it will pass. My mother finally got a full nights sleep two nights ago after a week of none and is experiencing greater and greater time of lucidity each day. Talking to her surgeon had been incredibly helpful as well as he felt there was to be a very very long road to recovery given the extent of the hemmorage she suffered. However, she is walking a few steps now and her left side is stronger everyday. Her memroy is completely intact and her conversation and sense of humor is almost entirley restored. he has called her a miracle and just can't believe her progress. It has been an absaloutely terrifying experience but the brain is a wonderful and fascinating thing - never, never give up hope!
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Hi! My grandmother is 70 . She was in a good health before she had a stroke . She had thromboses in the right side of the brain 4 months ago, 1 hour after the stroke she immediately undergone therapy.I live in Kosovo (ex - Yugoslavia) and we had war here 8 years ago,the conditions in public hospitals are very poor and we have not even a single rehab facility here so after 8 days of therapy we took our granny for further rehab in home .She is doing excercises with physio therapist every day (1-2 hours), but she still cannot move at all the left side of the body , and she could not talk .Since here in Kosovo we do not have any Health Insurance at all we are in a very bad situation we can afford to pay the physio therapist but we cannot pay the speech therapist.My parents are divorced , i live with my mother , she is jurist and works as a Head of Human Resources and Menager in The Ministry of Health and what is absurd is that her payment is only 300 Euros a month, can you imagine that , we are in a very bad position because we feel that we cannot give to the granny the treatment she needs , can anyone tell me can we continue without speech and occupational therapy, is it possible for my granny to walk or start talking ,and how long could it take ?!
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I pray for you all
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you must never give up!!! I have read all of the blog posts on here and just wanted to say that as long as yur loved ones get rehab therapy, they will be alright! I had a hemo stroke 2 1/2 months ago and after being in therapy for 6 weeks, i have come a LONG way! I no longer have any "deficits" except for my vision. I have a visual left field cut that seems to contonue to improve. The two things I had going for me were my age of 29 years and my undying motivation to ket better!! I practiced my therapy at all times. My caregivers bought me books similar to the ones that my therapists used on me and I was back to "normal" in 6 weeks. All of the people I was in therapy with were other stroke survivors or brain injury survivors and they all inproved within the time that I shared with them. Therapy is key!! God bless you all!!
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Hi all, reading your posts has given me hope again, which was snatched by the medical team the last two days.

My mother, 80, suffered a massive hemorage stroke to the left side one week ago. We were told she would not make it and that is the reason they would not send her to ICU. They even discussed with us the option of not reviving her if her heart stopped as her quality of life is diminished. Her right side was completely paralysed and she was unable to speak.

In the last week she has survived. She has regained some movement in her right foot and her face and head are no longer droopy. She still does not look to her right side. She has full movement in left side. She looks at us and seems to recognise us and will follow our instructions of moving her good arm etc... Sometimes she doesn't do things like touch her nose etc... Up until yesterday we were told the next step is rehab, however, yesterday they said she was not responding to instructions and will not gain anything from rehab. This upset us terribly. This morning my sister called and said the dr said she is responsive and followed instructions. We were terribly excited. Today we had a family conference with the whole team and were advised that my mother has considerable damage to her left brain which means she will remain high care and nursing home is the only option. No way will they give her a chance for rehab. They are advising us that it will be very difficult to take her to live with my sister and to be cared for at home.

I am so confused. Sure she is sleepy most of the time, but if you walk in the room and say hi mum, it's me, she opens her eyes and acknowledges you. She may even lift her arm to hold yours (I think purposefully). Today my husband and I visited and I said hi, she opened her eyes, and then I told her Dom my husband was there and she gave the first biggest smile I had seen. She loves my husband, but I think moreso because he is a physiotherapist and I think she believed he was going to get her better. How can this not be responding. It has only been one week. Surely she needs more time. One week for gods sake, and they have given up on her.

We don't know what to do. They say that she will have a peg tube put in before they discharge us. Up to 3 weeks max she can stay. I'm hoping this will buy us some time to show them that she is a good candidate for rehab. She may have even been a good candidate for ICU.

One more thing, now they're thinking with the amount of damage, she may only live for another 3 months.

I don't know what to think or do.

Sorry to go on and thanks for all your stories
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My friend of 64 years had a stoke 4 weeks ago this sunday morning. She has the blank stare also. I think that she does hear us  and does respond to us at times. Her stroke was on the left side. It almost seems hopeless. Now her feeding tube is in her stomache.
She does breathe on her own and seems to be doing ok. She is just there. They do not give us much hope and would have just taken the feeding tube out to let her die if her daughter would have done it. We did not think it was time to give up and just let her die. Is there anyone that has a loved one that had a left side stroke that has been able to participate in therapy?
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My mother suffered a carotid artery aneurysm on Dec 31st, and we are guessing that during the coiling surgery at Eden Medical Center in Castro Valley CA that she suffered a stroke on the left side of the brain.

She was driving in her car when she got the fist symptom of aneurysm (loss of consciousness / sleepy) and crashed into a small tree and came to rest against a brick reinforced metal fence- my guess is that the dose of adrenalin from the accident re-woke her as she was able to speak to the officer / emergency worker after the crash.

Cause of these hard times, our house phone had been disconnected, and  there was no way for emergency  workers to contact us-  so we only found out 12 hours later about it by filing a missing persons  report & having a deputy come to our house.

She was medi-flighted from our town 56 miles away for the expertise of Eden Medical's Neuro ICU.

We found out 2 hours after the flight and drove there from Stockton CA. We found here in a drug induced sleep/coma state- tho at the time she was restless and moving all limbs and making facial expressions.  The doctor did not want to revive her due to the risk of breaking loose the clot/s and to add to it she was entubated & the shock of removing the tube would raise her blood pressure and maybe cause more bleeding so she wasn't brought out of it.

Me my father and the rest of our immediate family sat and waited through a 9 hour surgery to coil the rupture area. After, we got to see her- and was a truly traumatic experience for me as she was coming out of over a 24 hour heavy sedation, her eyes were open, heart rate and blood pressure was high and she was shaking all over.

We left to go home after being awake for more than 24 hours- my grandma of 72 ( her mother) was able to drive for over an hour to get us home.

The next time we went to see her she was comatose, & on full ventilator support tho she could breath on her own.

I forget the exact time line, but after 2 weeks she opened here eyes with a blank stair, she did not respond to commands but did have reflex to pain on both sides. She soon developed pneumonia- and most do under these circumstances.  

After a while she would open her eyes when she herd me or my father say hello, and began to move her left leg & arm. Her arm would go up towards her breathing tubes.

Her vitals- Blood pressure and heart rate would go up and down, sleep and opened eyes, but we had no idea if she really knew we were there.

She got a trac. and a feeding tube in here stomach and was shortly moved out of the ICU to a normal room on the neuro floor of the hospital because her vitals had regulated. My mother liked to sleep at home and when shes hooked up  to oxygen she goes to sleep quickly- which dosnt help us when we want her to be awake.

As of now, she focuses on me when i hold her hand, and watches tv when shes more awake, tho we still don't know weather she really knows whats going on. She still dosnt respond to command and dosnt squeeze our hands when shes asked to, tho shes focused on us.

We don't know exactly where in the left side where the bleeding was, and the Dr told  us that there was also small bleeding on the top of the brain. I have done some research on the brain and stroke- and found all of the stories and comments on this site to be very comforting, tho I feel almost angry, to hear so many peoples responses of loved ones coming out of it- when my mother cant let us know that shes still here with us.

I know  that time is crucial and needed for recovery, and I have hope that she will come back to us- but I so dearly want a sign from her, I would be so happy just to know shes here in any form.

As time goes by i will come back and let you all know the news, and hopefully I can type an end  to this story that is positive.

Thanks to all of you who bear your very soul on this site to tell your story. Its taken me a month and a few drinks to not be in tears as I type this.

As many have said before... NEVER GIVE UP!!! and don't let them give up as well.

-Ian
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It is now more than 4 months since mother suffered from Stroke affecting Brain Stem.  She can start to move her hands a little bit. However, her conscious level is still very low.  I will not give up!!
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My sister in law has had her second stroke three weeks ago.  She is home and in going to rehab 3-days per week.  Her thinking is slow, but she seems fine.  We are trying to motivate her to be more positive and to exercise more than just doing rehab.  Can any one give me suggestions how to help her want to get up and move.  She sits and wants everyone to wait on her.
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June 18th My best friend (my grandma) an amazingly active 80 year old had a severe hemorrhagic stroke. They gave her 6 hrs to live, and told me to call or family. It is now 3 weeks tomorrow and shes still fighting hard. She was conscious in the er for the first 15 min then fell into a deep coma. We have had a feeding tube placed in the bottom of her stomach kind of into her intestines to try and prevent aspiration. On day 15 she started opening her eyes and looking at the people in the room, and squeezing hands on command not all the time but in her more awake state. I find she does sleep i know it wounds funny as she is in a coma but she has a few hrs a day where he breathing is different and she seems more awake. The drs are baffled that she is still alive, she is a fighter and we arnt giving up either. I spend at least 8 hrs a day with her at the hospital and let her listen to music and the news like she always did. We have been told by all the drs the prognosis is low that she will wake up since the bleed is 9 cm, but we hold on to faith and the fact she was so strong before the stroke. reading your stories has given me more hope thank you.
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my story is very much like tommahwk.

my mum had a severe stroke, large intracerebral hemorrhage on right hand side of brain on 20/06/2011 at about 10am. she was at hospital within the hour of signs such a slurring and left hand side body drop, but she was quiet all morning and could of had headaches and problems early on but not told us. She was still conscious and attempting communication at 8pm that evening when i was finally allowed to see her. the next morning when we came in at 10am to the neuro icu unit we were told she had deteriorated (she was barely conscious) they told us the brain bleed and swelling had gotten alot worse and they had to put her into a medical induced coma that morning to save her life. she was in the medical coma for 7 days, they tried a hypothermia machine to try reduce swelling, this did not have any affect on the swelling, and it put all her organs at high risk. we were told about 5 times she would not make it. they brought her out of the medical coma as it was doing more damage then good. they told us surgeory was not an option due to size and location of bleed and her high blood pressure.

3 weeks later she is still in her own coma, she has not woken up (we've had an eye open a few times, she was responding to pain for a few days, twitching in her eyes, but now it is just body convulsions and not alot else) the brain swelling has not gone down at all, so it is exactly the same as that morning they put her into a medical coma. her body organs are all ok once again, and her high blood pressure is now under control. the bleeding has stopped, but its just sitting and waiting for the swelling to go down (how long does this usually take?) and the blood to be re-absorbed to see if she wakes up and what sort of brain damage has been done. we've been told again she is not going to make it.

has anyone had any sort of story similar, same sort of bleed, coma, timescales, stories of hope for me to share with my dad and brother? this has been the worst rollercoaster ever and to be told she isn't going to make it so many times is just destroying us and our hope. but we still go everyday and try to talk to her for a little bit everyday. even tho they now tell us she is at high risk of catching a fever/bacteria and dying that way.

please. thank you
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My father had a massive stroke on 12,august,2011.Immediately he was put on ventilaters.His heart and lungs are functioning normally ,but he is not able to come out of coma.His eyes pupils are moving.CT Scan shows that half of his right hand side brain is damged.He has been removed from ventilater on 19.aug and how he is on oxygen support.Since then 45 hours has passed and he is maintaining good heart rate and respiration rate.What are the chances of his survival?
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i totally agree to what u said....hey  barbara its true have faith and dnt tell god that ur problem is BIG...But tell ur PROBLEM that ur GOD is BIG....
    off latelyy one of my frind tried hanging himself after which he went into brain hemorrhage...critical the brain swelling is just not coming down..rest the whole body is normal no problems at all
   GUYS please keep him in prayers....AMEN
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My mom (85) just had a hemmoraghic stroke on Dec 13, 2011.  She had great care for 3 days in ICU then she was moved to a regular room with just average care.  The doctors gave very little information to us and were difficult to track down.  On the sixth and ninth days we heard from the two doctors and both were very pessimistic...."she'll never go home again, will have to live in a long term, skilled-care facility for the rest of her life".  

It was quite a shock since she passed the swallow test on day three and was responding to commands to lift her left arm, open eyes, etc.  She could speak some words that we understood and when upset, could speak much more clearly.  It does seem that these doctors skip the class on bedside manner and giving hope to families.  

Mom got the quick rush out of the hospital on the 9th day (right before Christmas) and was was transferred to a skilled-care nursing facility, which is barely staffed because of the weekend Christmas holiday.    It amazes me that the hospital staff has no procedures to lead the patient's family to make proper decisions for the ongoing care.  The social worker had never even been to any of these facilties.  She didn't even know what the staffing was at each one.  To complicate matters, this is happening in Miami, Florida and many of the facilites "speak no English".  

I am considering asking my dad if we can move Mom to where I live in Charlotte, NC for a few months to get the first part of Rehab done under my supervision.  My dad is very strong and capable but it is very difficult for a spouse to handle all these details, choices and be able to have the strength to advocate for their loved one.  Just because a patient is old doesn't mean the medical community should give up on any real recovery.

The comments here are encouraging!
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i am currently going through the same thing however my father had severe bleed in the left lobe however i see the same responses as well as a lift with the right leg,right leg bending a few times, shrugging of the shoulders,side to side movement of the head when spoken to i get the same nothing but decisions im not ready to go to that i see improvement... with prayers,faith, and lots of hope
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you have no idea how much i needed your story.
my husband had hemorrhagic stroke 5 days ago. i was losing hope because they keep seeming to give him medicines, and he keeps getting worse. now he has pneumonia in the lungs.
i cried muchly & got angry at him because promised to never leave me.

i hope i hope i hope.
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Gr8 to hear this!
My husband 33 yrs old had a stroke last july and now in his cognitive retrainig. 1 coil was placed for his aneurism bleed. your reply has given me a great hope even my husband will recover fully. but if you can mention your time frame for your wife will be of great help to me. My husband is now mobile but has a problem with his cognitive memory. Your post has given me a gr8 hop thank u so much.

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Thank you for your store.  My husband, who is 74, had a hemorraghic stroke on July 27, 2012. I was able to get him to the hospital within an hour and he was later transferred to a university training hospital 45 minutes away.  He had surgery the following evening.  He did not have the ventilator when he came from the recovery room.  He was talking exactly as he always had and telling me about a book he had read the day before his stroke.  He did so well that he was moved to the intense rehab unit in 5 days after the stroke.  The second day there he developed a fever of 103 and no one had any answers for me.  Three spinal taps didn't give any answers either.  He was moved back to the hospital for several weeks. I didn't tell you that he only weighed 112 when he went into the hospital.  This is as bad as being obese.  They did not know what to do with him.  He didn't want to eat because everything tasted like cardboard.  He did drink some, but he got dehydrated twice and had to keep getting fluids.  Finally he had to have a pick line put in and they gave nourishment through it.  These were 1800 calories based on his blood work and individual needs.
He never passed the swallow test and everything was pureed.  He was moved back to the intense rehab unit and stayed there for several weeks before they gave me notice that he had to go because he wasn't making the progress needed for Medicare to pay.  The last day there he walked around the gym three times with the Swedish walker and twice with a regular walker and went up the steps and down once.  He had just gotten to eating 75 to 100% of his meals.  Anyway, I found another facility in another down that has skilled care and rehabilitation.  He is getting OT, PT, and ST there and making slow progress.  He just wants to sleep all the time.  The doctor and caseworker at the University Hospital tried their best to get me to "let him go" naturally or put in a feeding tube.  I did neither!  He eats everything on his tray and drinks a liter of fluids a day to keep hydrated.  I stay every day from about 10 to 9.  You really have to stay on top of what is happening.  I give him a bath, change him, put him in his wheelchair, roll him around outside every day and try to work with him in his good times with card reaches, stacking colored cups, picking out ABC's or numbers.  Do everything you can and learn everything you can!
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my husband had hemorrhagic stroke in basal ganglia, right side, on oct. 27 2012. his left side paralyzied, but is conscious, eating, etc.  doctors say will never be able to walk or move left side.  does anyone have any experience with loved one being able to move , doctors say if he hasn't moved by now, never will.  I need hope.  
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Hi All
My wife age 30 years, name Jeena, recently had hemmoragic stroke after 12 days of pregnancy. We had our one of the best gift from God, a twins (boy & a girl). Later 2 weeks of pregnency she developed an acute pain in the head & fainted. We took her to the Hospital, were they confirmed that she is very critical & needs an urgent surgery. After the surgery its 20 days, she is improving her health in terms of an infection which effected her in between but her responses are very little. She is opening her eyes less frequently & showing no further signs.

We are frequently trying to stimulate her but could not find any quick results. I am aware that the patience is the key, as each day passes my frustration level is rising.

I have lot of questions hoovering in my mind regarding the time taken for her recovery & what to do at this stage to mprove her response. Are this time taken a common way. Looking at the age of my wife the doctors were expecting a faster response, while she is not coming upto their  expectation.

I appreciate if someone can guide me better.
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My mother had a stroke and heart attack in March 2012 and only went to Cardio once and never Neuro.  She did see her PCP and was taking BP med. My dad brought her to hospital Dec 30 and they did CT for headache and sent her home with pain med.  The next day she arrested and my dad did CPR, medics defibbed. She was put in coma and hyporthermia, respirator, feeding tube. They did one stint. After Heart Cath, she had another stroke. She almost coded when they tried to do MRI.  She woke up on her own and would stare in our direction when we were talking. After Cath, she has been less responsive. Neuro said on a scale of 1 to 1,000 she is a 3.  Not looking good. CT on Friday showed damage on both sides of the brain.  They didn't know if the old stroke progressed or if it was new.  She can breathe for an hour and a half on her own, twenty minutes without alarm going off. They did a PIC to keep her BP up.  Heart breaking.  We signed DNR because that is what she would want and made clear to us.  My dad feels guilty for doing CPR, but we told him he did the right things.  They are doing TEE to scope heart and try to find blood clots. She also has Metabolic Acidosis, Rheumatoid Arthritis, Pneumonia under control, running fever.  So difficult to see her like this.
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i had stroke last week of december, intracerebral hemorrhagic and stay in the hospital for 15 days. am two months and hoping to fully recover. everything is functioning but a little weak in my right arms and sometimes a speech problem. there is hope for everyone.
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i had stroke last week of december, intracerebral hemorrhagic and stay in the hospital for 15 days. am two months and hoping to fully recover. everything is functioning but a little weak in my right arms and sometimes a speech problem. there is hope for everyone.
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Hi Tommahwk, no update from your site. Hope your mother recovered well and living healthy life.
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my father who is 55 years old had undergone a brain stoke on recently it has been 22 days that he is in the ICCU, doctors say that a blockage has occurred in the cerebrum ,he is under ventilation and with feeding tube.Doctors say that the time is uncertain i.e they cant say when he will cure up and even if he cures up he will only breath and nothing else.. bt as i visit him, i see him improving and when i call him he stares at me and starts crying even he tries to bend forward and i feel as if he is trying to speak something to me. can anyone tell me that whether he will be alright? the time to cure up? hearing everyones story i am feeling Quiet good..  plz do reply..                        -its pree (with lots of prayers and hopes)
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Pree92,

I know it's a difficult time for you right now.  But let me tell you a little story.  On September 14, 2009, my Mom had a homorrhagic stroke.  I live in Texas, she lives in CA.  I had talked to her earlier that morning everything was fine.  I got a phone call that evening with the news.  I headed to CA on a red eye flight.  I was NOT prepared for what I saw when I arrived.  She was in ICU in a medically induced coma.  They asked permission to drill a hole in her skull to release pressure.  I said yes because at that point I wanted them to do everything and anything they could to save my Mom. Now this is where the story gets interesting...they told me she may live 3 days to 3 months...on September 14th 2013...it will have been 4 years...God is sooooo goood.  It has not been easy to my Mom or me during this time.  She has gone thru sooooo much.  I go visit her once a month but talk on the phone to her every other day.  I talk to her as if nothing is wrong with her.  When I visit her I sing to her, play her favorite music, show her pictures, message her scalp, give her a pedicure (which tickles her feet...she's found a way to let me know that).  This past weekend I was visiting and I motioned to her..."I LOVE YOU"...she just started at me.  Then I motioned in reverse to ask her if "She LOVED ME TOO"...and guess what...she slowly shook her head YES (I'm in tears right now). That was be best gift she could have given to me.  So many had told me I was being selffish to keep you here.  I should just let her go.  I'm so glad I did not listen to family, friends or even medical professionals.  Everyone is different therefore the healing process will be an individual one for your Dad.  The key is to keep him spiritually motivated.  Don't let him give up.  Also the body is amazing.  I believe it will heal itself if given enough time to do so.  Also keep praying...pray for him and with him.  I wish you and your Dad the best of luck and a speedy recovery...remember DON'T GIVE UP.  
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My 35 year old cousin had a brain bleed stroke, they did not do surgery, the bleeding stopped on its own. She is morbidly obese and has high blood pressure. They have kept her pressure down, occasionally she will have a fever cold compresses gets it down. She has a trach and a feeding tube in her nose. She is given her daily meds through the tube. She will open her eyes for a few minutes and then close them again. They are trying to ween her off of the ventilator but each time she goes into distress and they have to put her back own. It has been four weeks since she had her stroke and they say that she is not getting any better and she is not getting any worse. She responds to pain, yawns, moves her mouth like she is eating, and blinks as if she is understanding what you are saying. What are the chances of her survival and what frame of mind would she be in?
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remember doctors don't always know everything and if you're seeing progression  that''s all that counts.Eight months ago my mom who was superwoman doing things everyday to help people suffered a  hemmorhagic stroke while putting air in one of her tires en route to church.I had spoken to her barely fifteen minutes before on her cell was called by my niece who had been called by someone who had found my mom unconscious at the wal mart gas station and called the last number dialed reaching my niece who called me and I rushed to the scene thinking mom had fallen,possibly broken her leg,when I got there and got into the ambulance it was heartbreakingly obvious mom had suffered a stroke;she gazed up blankly beyond myself and the paramedics,no idea who I was.However by the time we reached the hospital and she was being examined she knew who  I was,who my fiance was,my sister and niece,her sisters,even members of  her church.The er doc predicted death based on scans they had run,but I knew she was better because she went from not knowing me to knowing not only myself but everyone else.He had suggested surgery which could kill her yet a neurosurgeon came in and didn't feel surgery was necessary,had seen worse cases than ours that didn't demand surgery.It's been a very slow progress but for once,for example a lot of stroke survivors suffer from pnumonia,some unable to fight it and prior my mom was highly susceptible yet while in lifecare during winter she never came down with it so again that was a sign to me.People constantly asked what were the doctors saying,which was only time will tell because there is no way anyone can tell you when your loved one will recover,only God knows that.Sometimes we go through things to make us stronger and those things will take a scenic route rather than an expressway.Mom spent 3 weeks at lifecare,90 days in a nursing home with her memory in tact.Paralyzed on her right side with speech problems.,but still mom,still bossy.I believe she will recover fully or at least have a quality of life that's not submerged in stress.I hope this inspires you never to give up.Good luck,my prayers are with you
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I had a massive stroke on October 27 2013. My wife found me on the floor while I was painting the bathroom. Her and my daughter found me within 1/2 hr. I really don't remember much of it so I will let you know what I went through. My stroke happen when I got hit in the head from a fence post fallen while my son and I was taking down a roof from our screen in porch.they found me in enough time for the ICU to give me the drug called TPA. The first hospital I was in wasn't equipped to handle a massive stroke like I had. They ended up medic vac to another hospital. In the ICU at the second hospital is where thing went down hill for me. While there I got a lot sicker. I ended up getting ARDS,ARFS, septic shock, pnamonia. My wife had to make the decision along with my parents and sisters to put me in a medical induce comma to save my life. My organs was starting to shut down. They couldn't control my heart rate or my breathing that's why they had to put me in a comma. They told my family that I only had a 20% chance of living. I had some nights that they all thought I was going to die. I was on life support and in a comma for 8 days. They had to drill a hole in my head to install a bolt to measure the pressure. After I started to be better they woke me up and then I was awake for 8 days straight. I spent 3 weeks in the hospital and 1 month in rehab learning to walk again. My stroke was on my right side so my left side was affected. I walk with a limp and don't have much feeling on my left side. With little feeling in my foot it makes walking a little difficult. I have to do most every thing by visual for my left side. I always kept a positive attitude through all of it. I was out of work and in a wheel chair for 7 months. My nurologist wanted me to go on permitted disability I told him that wasn't going to happen. I walk with a limp can't lift anything heavy with my left arm. Just tell her not to give up.
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I at the same point now and I dont know what to do
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I at the same point now and I dont know what to do
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I so glad for this post I am going through the same thing
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Never give up on your loved ones after this stoke. My husband had a massive bleed at age 67.  Every Dr.told us to take him to hospice, we would not give up, started playing music daily, exercising his limps. talking, yelling, & working everyday.  He came out of his coma, it took months of rehap, but after the swelling in his brain went down, he is doing well.  He lost partial vision, is mind is better than mine.  Do not ever give up, work & fight for your loved one, it takes months to get them back, but they will recover.  His stroke was 7/29/13, now months later, he is walking, talking & doing well.
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God is able.  My 51 year old fiance had a hemorrhagic stroke on February 14th of this year.  He has since battled one medical issue after another, from pneumonia, UTI, septic shock and renal failure but God is able.  The first week in the doctors did not think he was going to make it.  when he survived they then said he would be locked in, but her was following commands, moving his head and responding by nodding his head and blinking his eyes.  Unfortunately after having a trach and peg the medical aliments began (as mentioned above).  One doctors said the mortality rate is not promising and he may not come out of the state he's in.  Just last night he has started to move his mouth in an effort to respond to those speaking to him. God is able and I believe he will come out of this to the capacity in which God chooses to use him.  I know it will be a long hike but one worth hiking.  
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Hello can you please email me my name is Stephanie my mother had a hemorrhagic stroke and had the same thing what your husband is going through she had it September 16th 2015. My mom is 45 years old they were telling me the same thing about my mom but my mother is doing so much now she is speaking now.
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Thank you so much for sharing all of your stories. My mom had a hemorrhagic stroke nearly two months ago. She had a a trach, peg, shunt and is in a wheelchair in an acute rehab facility. I had hoped her progress would be quicker, but I am very thankful she no longer has the trache ( and am really amazed how quickly that closes!!!), she is beginning to talk above a whisper (although at times she just mouths words and I'm not sure what she is saying), and can move all of her limbs. I am thankful she's alive. She is beginning to eat puréed foods and thickened chocolate milk. The facility she is in now is 90 minutes away one way. My dad drives every day just about to see her, and my siblings go 4-5 days per week. It is draining emotionally. It's been difficult. We will more than likely need to move her out of the acute rehab into a subacute rehab, and I wish there was one close to us. It's hard to gauge which ones are good. You hear bad stories about everywhere!
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