HELP!!!!

[jennstuff]

My 14 year old son has been suffering depression n social anciety for a while now,,I have been working with his school about it,,,n he sees a counciller,,,He did somthing that shocked the **** out of me,,,,,He came into my room around 7 am,,,woke me up,,n started masterbating in my face,,,I screamed at him to go to his room,,im shocked ,,,i dont know how to talk to him about it,,,,,i have been trying so hard to help him,,,but my heands are tied,,,im at a los now,,,,,part of me wants to send him away,,,n another part of me dose not want him to think im giving up on him,,,,I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years n i never let him dicipline my son,,,but i think im going to let my boyfriend tack over,,,i cant handle the way my son is with me,,,everytime i try n dicapline him he get violent with me,,call me names,,,,he has even punched me in the head,,,,,So do u think im doing the right thing my me steping back,,,n letting my boyfriend take over,,,,,,?????

[blueboy121]

batter the little **** and drag him to a shrink. thats all i got

[Hardjayboy]

I think you are right to let your boyfriend take over.  I would be surprised if a 14 year old boy masturbated in front of a man's face and also punched his head in.  He needs to be taught respect.  

[Kerrb007]

That's an ok idea. Maby he's just really horny alot and wants a gf or something do u know if ur son does mastribate? Cause that can change a person and affect there mindset. What about school stresses or extracurricular activities?

[magpieee]

He definitely needs a guy to control him. I'm sorry, ma'am, but that isn't right of a 14 year old to do. He needs more than a counselor to the extent you're making it seem. That's not normal 14 year old actions.