This patient support community is for discussions relating to
teen depression, abuse, aggressive behavior,
alcohol and
drug abuse,
anxiety, behavioral issues,
fatigue, gastrointestinal problems,
grief loss, parent issues, relationship problems, school issues, self-esteem, sexuality,
sleep disorders, and step-families.
You said you are moving out. Do you have a safe place to go? I do think it's a good idea to move out as long as you have a better place to go where you can just concentrate on your school work and being a teen!
You say she doesn't know. I think I'd wait till the last moment to tell her in case there's a scene. You need to make sure all the arrangements are set and solid. Make sure someone's picking you up and helping you with your stuff. If it were me, I'd wait till maybe this weekend to tell her. Make sure she knows you will be fine and safe and that this is the best situation for everyone for right now. Tell her you will call her and let her know you are safe.
That's what I'd do. Either way, it's not going to be easy and she may react badly. Just do what you know is the right thing for you.
I wish you the best.
God bless,
April