i dont know what to do anymore

Question

Im only 15 and i left high school due to bullying and then i went to tafe which is an adult learning place but theres kids there my age and i thought this would be better then normal school. But its not im starting to get bullied here aswell and now im scared to go to school. And plus on top of that i hate my life because i think im ugly fat and not good enough for anyone. I have no friends and i weigh 47kg im underweight i no that but i cant help it i cant eat i dont have the energy to do anything anymore. And i just want to give up on everything to make all the pain go away. Please help i dont no what to do :(

blueboy121 · Answer

well I'm guessing violence isn't the answer but when thus happened to me I got the biggest one of them and kicked the crap out of him. None of them ever said anything to me again. Now I'm not saying just go up into the group of them and swing in all directions or start picking fights but if it's a very last resort that's what I'd do.

sharn2010 · Answer

Thank you all so much it was a big help but this is getting worse :(

Samm123 · Answer

hey im 18 i got bullied through high school and college and in the end i dropped out. i have learnt in the end the people who bully you r the ones with boring lifes and nothing better to do. i no thats easyer said than done but if u keep running from the bullies u will b for the rest of your life. tell your parents or teachers or even the police they will soon sort it out. u cant give up sweetie. and i used to think i was fat and ugly and no one wanted me.. but through my high school there was this 1 boy who didnt really talk to me but he noticed me and now were bin 2gether 2years. just coz some people bully you doesnt mean there ent people noticeing the good stuff about you.. u need to be the bigger person and laugh it off even if ur hurtin inside dnt let me them see its hurtin you.

 i suffer from a eatin disorder and mental health problems due to being bullied. u need to start eatin iv neally died from not eatin. i hate havin a eatin disorder but iv gotta live with it for the rest of my life every day coz it will never go away. i had to have a nurse come round and check my weight and u dont want that even if u eat little things please do it a little is better than nothing. and also go to your doctor and tell him how u feel before its to late. 

your a strong person dont tell people break u. im here if u ever need to talk!!!!

jenna9switch · Answer

Oh, you sound like you are going through hell, a feeling I am quite familiar with.  Remember these things....there are answers....you do need help and deserve only help that is supportive and desirable to you...I know a girl quite well who has been in and out of a very similar situation.  She found help and answers.  Do you have support (parental, other family, friends, teachers, doctors...?)   TALK to whomever you trust will help you in your best interest.  And finally, what worked for my friend was an outpatient program at a psych treatment center that helped with both her absolute lack of desire to eat, and her depression.  There are so many ways to get help....keep in touch with me if you want to talk about this anymore, and I am wishing you joy, maybe not today, but someday soon....

cfstorey · Answer

I would say to talk to your parents or a counselor. The not eating and low energy may be a sign of depression. Which is treatable! Please please do not give up! Talk to an adult, see a doctor to rule out depression. And if it is depression - know its ok! The medicines for it work amazingly. Off of my medication i am paranoid, insecure, afraid of people and can't function, all i want to do is sleep and cry and never eat. The medication makes me feel better, hopeful, of worth and like there's a point to trying. I hope you can find out what is going on. Maybe a counselor would be able to show you ways to handle the bullies and how to stand up for yourself and feel better about yourself. Keep us posted and if you ever need to talk im a click away ok? Talk all you want!

skmedlin27703 · Answer

Do not give up! What are these people saying to you? People can be so mean! I would say ignore them but thats impossible I know... I would think of what to say back... turn it around on them... and embarrass the **** out of them! That way you will know that they experienced the same feelings you did and they may not do it again.... If you need to talk I am here!