Discolored Vagina

[Babygirl38756208734]

Hi im 13. my vagina lips are a shade of dark dark purple...i have never had sex...i have masturbated around 3 or 4 times. PLEASE help!

[asdjhasdkjhsdvbnur]

what skin color are you? diffrent skin colors= diffrent lip colors.

[Babygirl38756208734]

yeah i bet i will

[grendslori]

Okay, so if you don't have a mother than turn to your grandmother or the person you is taking care of you. I'm really sorry that your mother is out of the picture. I was VERY close to my mother when I became an adult with children of my own and as I grew even older she became my best friend, literally. I hope you have that chance when you become older, to be able to have that closeness.

[Babygirl38756208734]

Hey thanks! yeah lots of people say im very! mature for my age...lol yeah ill stop i have never even watched porn. i dont know what is wong with me! hahaha lol okay thanks a ton. see my mom..well i tecniclly dont have one so yeah and im not close to her...in ANY WAY! so yeah. THANK YOU!

[grendslori]

At 13, if you realize this about boys than you are far more mature than your years! My hat's off to you, young lady! Most teens do not realize the truth in that way of thinking. Guys use girls to get what they themselves want.....most couldn't care less about the girl they "love". If the girl gets pregnant, it's her problem and it's a problem that is going to last for the next eighteen years of her life, whether she continues to like the guy or not.......most times it turns into not. As far as what you are dealing with, you may want to consider not masterbating for awhile and seeing if there is any change, if not, talk to your mother and she may want to take you for your first gyn check-up. I have a feeling you may be being to rough on yourself and that has aggrevated the problem. My best to you!

[Babygirl38756208734]

I plan on staying a virgin. till im really ready...i wouldnt even for a guy i truly loved cuz if he loved me as much as he "says he does" then he can wait/ and thanks! is there anything i can do about it? like to make it lighter? stop masturbating...check? lol aslo like the lips are very very large my sister who is 16. hers aren't even this big?!

[grendslori]

You are probably perfectly fine. There is a tremendous bloodflow to this area of the body and by masterbating, you increase the bloodflow and that is probably why the coloration is darker. Congats to you for remaining a virgin; you won't regret that is you stay true to yourself.